Popular and innovative, online dating sites have innovated the world of romance. High on the popularity list, online dating is big business. It is a $ 1 billion industry that is thriving because it has provided affordable options to thousands of singles. The projected growth per year is set at 9% with revenues of $516 million coming just from consumer subscriptions.
According to Hitwise a market research firm, online dating is extremely popular and here to stay. In fact online dating often accounts for 1%of internet usage. The business has moved with need. Extremely popular are niche sites that focus on religion, ethnicity, or special interests.
Many sites promote social networking and offer music, games, interactive content and more. This appeals to youngsters aged 18-24. There is no pressure to date or find a relationship although you are welcome to develop a friendship formed on the site into something deeper.
Extremely professional, online dating sites offer some degree of security, protect your privacy, offer advice on possible matches, guide you on how to navigate the site, and offer exiting things like online discussion groups, cyber messaging with virtual bouquets, and phone calls. The move now expected is to use new technologies to connect people through SMS, mobiles and 3G services.
The concept caught on like wildfire because people were to busy to find time to date, shy to approach strangers, and wary of meeting alone. With online dating a person can log on from the security of his or her own home or office. One can meet as many singles as he or she wants to in a single session.
The costs are much lower than going on a date and one can get to know a person before meeting them. Since online profiles list likes and dislikes and photographs it is possible to pick and choose. A person can avoid the awkwardness of meeting face to face and finding out that the date is just not right.
What more you can date from any corner of the earth and don’t have to be in the same town to get in touch. But as always there are advantages and disadvantages to online dating.
To sustain revenues, the business is looking towards being user friendly; generating revenues from romance related advertisements such as getaways, make overs and so on, and becoming more friendship oriented rather than purely romance oriented.
Sites are offering greater consumer protection and incorporating many news ways to make contact like videos, SMS, MMS, and TV based services. Many even go the extra mile and organize singles events.
There are over 2500 active online dating sites with large ever growing memberships. Although many experts feel the online dating industry is heading for a plateau others predict diversification and great imaginative business modules.
Whatever the prediction online dating sites fulfill a need that other commerce sites don’t. They promote romance and sell dreams.
Friday, August 21, 2009
Thursday, August 20, 2009
The Growth of Hookup Websites: Will They Overtake 'Normal' Online Dating Services?
Do online dating sites have a bad wrap for being hookup sites? Have online dating websites shed their stigma as a place for only the lonely, just to have traded it in for a hookup image?
While it seems like there certainly are websites and services available for people to meet dates for hookups alone, there are also plenty of other types of relationships that can, and have been formed, through online dating services, from friendships, to email correspondence, hookups, casual dates, and even marriage.
The internet is renowned for being a place that has something for everyone. The online dating industry is no exception. Though there are endless options for people seeking other people for various reasons and different types of relationships, it seems to some that there is an overwhelming number of websites offering dates for hookups.
This perception, while accurate in some senses, could also be due, in part, to the different marketing strategies approached by each, and the basic characteristics of companies and people who pursue these types of relationships.
To begin with, the marketing strategies for such websites are often quite aggressive. Though this may be a broad generalization, many websites that are designed to connect people for quick and easy sexual relationships are not as concerned with projecting a specific image, particularly in comparison with dating websites who try to distance themselves from this.
Certainly, many online dating services give their members the option to seek any type of relationship they want, whether that be a casual date, hookup, or long term commitment. However, the majority of these sites don't promote themselves exclusively as hookup sites, and don't pursue marketing strategies that are as aggressive and anonymous.
Most large online dating sites promote themselves as place for people to find love, and follow strict branding strategies. Hookup sites are often smaller companies, and are therefore less anonymous. This could help create the sense that there are many of these hookup services available, when really, this is because it is difficult to identify and differentiate the few that are out there.
The companies and people who are involved in these websites may also contribute to the sense that there are several hookup websites around these days. This may be partly because the companies are not large, recognizable brands.
The influx of hookup sites may also be attributed to the fact that the people who participate in these websites are usually not long term members (this is also a broad generalization).
In this sense, many members may come and go from the site, often just temporarily, to find a fast and casual hookup, and leave once they are satisfied. This may help create the impression that there are large numbers of people signing up, and increasing the number of members for these hookup sites.
Nonetheless, there are several hookup sites available, whether they are sites dedicated to hooking up, or are 'normal' dating websites who offer their members the option to seek all sorts of different types of relationships.
While it seems like there certainly are websites and services available for people to meet dates for hookups alone, there are also plenty of other types of relationships that can, and have been formed, through online dating services, from friendships, to email correspondence, hookups, casual dates, and even marriage.
The internet is renowned for being a place that has something for everyone. The online dating industry is no exception. Though there are endless options for people seeking other people for various reasons and different types of relationships, it seems to some that there is an overwhelming number of websites offering dates for hookups.
This perception, while accurate in some senses, could also be due, in part, to the different marketing strategies approached by each, and the basic characteristics of companies and people who pursue these types of relationships.
To begin with, the marketing strategies for such websites are often quite aggressive. Though this may be a broad generalization, many websites that are designed to connect people for quick and easy sexual relationships are not as concerned with projecting a specific image, particularly in comparison with dating websites who try to distance themselves from this.
Certainly, many online dating services give their members the option to seek any type of relationship they want, whether that be a casual date, hookup, or long term commitment. However, the majority of these sites don't promote themselves exclusively as hookup sites, and don't pursue marketing strategies that are as aggressive and anonymous.
Most large online dating sites promote themselves as place for people to find love, and follow strict branding strategies. Hookup sites are often smaller companies, and are therefore less anonymous. This could help create the sense that there are many of these hookup services available, when really, this is because it is difficult to identify and differentiate the few that are out there.
The companies and people who are involved in these websites may also contribute to the sense that there are several hookup websites around these days. This may be partly because the companies are not large, recognizable brands.
The influx of hookup sites may also be attributed to the fact that the people who participate in these websites are usually not long term members (this is also a broad generalization).
In this sense, many members may come and go from the site, often just temporarily, to find a fast and casual hookup, and leave once they are satisfied. This may help create the impression that there are large numbers of people signing up, and increasing the number of members for these hookup sites.
Nonetheless, there are several hookup sites available, whether they are sites dedicated to hooking up, or are 'normal' dating websites who offer their members the option to seek all sorts of different types of relationships.
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
Tips On Conversation Starters
Going out on a date can be really exciting and enjoyable especially when you’re having the time of your life with your date. The key factor in great dates is great conversation.
Striking up a conversation with the other person can put too much pressure on you especially if you know so little about them. This is one reason why you and your date should start asking questions about one another to get to know each other on a deeper level.
When you found something in common between you, this could be the start of a great conversation. Share you experiences and your interests, let them know and let them feel that you’re interested and you’re interesting.
Ask open ended questions. These questions are not simply answerable by yes or no but by deep conversational messages. Through this, you will have a good idea about the person’s intellectual level as well as their sense of humor, if there’s any.
Having the same wavelength of thinking is one of the crucial factors in successful relationships. You’d want to spend the rest of your life with someone who you can talk to about serious matters at the same time make you laugh, right?
Probably one of the best conversation starters involves sharing one or more sms in your mobile phone. You could start with Hey, you know what? A friend recently sent me this funny sms. I can’t stop laughing all day when I read it,” and then show her the message on your mobile phone.
You can also share some love quotes with her. You could start talking about it like, “When I read this love quote on my mobile phone, I knew I had to ask you out on a date. I was struck with it so hard that even if I was a bit shy, I mustered enough courage to ask you out. Here is why,” and then show the love quote that inspired you to be brave enough to ask her out.
This gesture will surely melt the girl’s heart and you’ll notice her blush while reading the love quote. If you’re lucky enough, she would be starting to fall for you because of what you told her.
If you are still quite unsure how to start the flow of communication, you can begin by complimenting your date. Saying something nice to a guy is easier than complimenting a girl. If you comment on his appearance or his car, it will instantly break the ice and will send a message that you like him.
Complimenting a girl can be complicated. Don’t just use average words because it would only mean that she looks plain. The tip here is to sound exhilarated and excited when you say something nice about her. Don’t over do it though, you might sound creepy enough and scare her off.
If you have a good sense of humor, take advantage of it. Laughter is a great ice breaker and you’d be surprised at how powerful it can be to help you connect with you date.
Believe it or not, both of you are nervous. It is okay to let your date know that you’re nervous. Since your date feels that same way, he’ll start letting his guard down to be comfortable with you.
Striking up a conversation with the other person can put too much pressure on you especially if you know so little about them. This is one reason why you and your date should start asking questions about one another to get to know each other on a deeper level.
When you found something in common between you, this could be the start of a great conversation. Share you experiences and your interests, let them know and let them feel that you’re interested and you’re interesting.
Ask open ended questions. These questions are not simply answerable by yes or no but by deep conversational messages. Through this, you will have a good idea about the person’s intellectual level as well as their sense of humor, if there’s any.
Having the same wavelength of thinking is one of the crucial factors in successful relationships. You’d want to spend the rest of your life with someone who you can talk to about serious matters at the same time make you laugh, right?
Probably one of the best conversation starters involves sharing one or more sms in your mobile phone. You could start with Hey, you know what? A friend recently sent me this funny sms. I can’t stop laughing all day when I read it,” and then show her the message on your mobile phone.
You can also share some love quotes with her. You could start talking about it like, “When I read this love quote on my mobile phone, I knew I had to ask you out on a date. I was struck with it so hard that even if I was a bit shy, I mustered enough courage to ask you out. Here is why,” and then show the love quote that inspired you to be brave enough to ask her out.
This gesture will surely melt the girl’s heart and you’ll notice her blush while reading the love quote. If you’re lucky enough, she would be starting to fall for you because of what you told her.
If you are still quite unsure how to start the flow of communication, you can begin by complimenting your date. Saying something nice to a guy is easier than complimenting a girl. If you comment on his appearance or his car, it will instantly break the ice and will send a message that you like him.
Complimenting a girl can be complicated. Don’t just use average words because it would only mean that she looks plain. The tip here is to sound exhilarated and excited when you say something nice about her. Don’t over do it though, you might sound creepy enough and scare her off.
If you have a good sense of humor, take advantage of it. Laughter is a great ice breaker and you’d be surprised at how powerful it can be to help you connect with you date.
Believe it or not, both of you are nervous. It is okay to let your date know that you’re nervous. Since your date feels that same way, he’ll start letting his guard down to be comfortable with you.
Tuesday, August 18, 2009
Free online dating
Free online dating, the sectrets revealed
Free online dating is everywhere. If your just about to take that exciting plunge into finding your souls companion online. Then you must read this free info article first. I am going to save you years off your search and teach you how to avoid the thousands of annoying fake profiles currently online for free. THAT'S RIGHT FREE!
I have been surfing the net for years wondering in and out of websites cruising for the right one and the right people. Finally I have found my wife to be and i am here to share with you my finest secrets on how to use Free Online dating to its maximum and find your soul mate for little or No cost.
There are loads of websites on the market that offer everything. Some free and others that are very expensive. So what's the main difference between them? And how can you choose which ones are better suited to you?
To be honest I believe I would be a member of at least 10 dating sites. And let me say that at least 9 of them are garbage. Some Great site Qualities to look for when finding dating sites:
· Opening of the site is professional.
· Members pics on front page.
· Choose a site that isn't afraid to show how many members it has
· Often a site with fewer numbers gives you greater chances to be noticed by others.
· Look for a description of what the site offers before joining; make sure it's not a porn site.
The problem with the majority of free online dating sites is they attract a huge number of members from poor foreign countries. Often these members want to try and send you a scam offering huge financial returns for helping them out.
And the whole time all they really want is your banking details so they can rob you blind. I strongly suggest staying away from these sites. Find a site that charges very minimal rates to email others. And free to join. IT'S SAFER
Once you have joined a website don't pay right away for email usage. Upload a picture if you can, it increases your chances of people emailing you. Search for other member's profiles and send Virtual kisses first.
Once you can see other members are interested in you and that they are roughly the type of people you want to get to know then upgrade for a paid membership and begin communicating.
Now you have all the tools needed for a successful online dating campaign. Before you read this article you were probably a bit apprehensive about joining a dating site but think about all the things you just learnt.
· How to find real people
· How to pick a professional site
· How to play the numbers game successfully
· How to get noticed quicker
· How to test a site before you buy in
· The importance of advertising yourself
· Online dating security
· How to find your real soul mate
· What kind of sites to avoid
Free online dating is easy. Ticket4one.com is one the most trustworthy sources of online participants available to daters. Full of events and activities worldwide set up to bring people like you together. Our events and activities are similar to speed dating events only we don't do it at a bar or restaurant.
We actually get out in the real world and do things like 4x4 tours, Mystery bus tours, learn2surf, poker nights, self-help and motivational course and many more. Our statement is “ Real events for real people. To meet others in a No obligation stress free environment.”
Free online dating is everywhere. If your just about to take that exciting plunge into finding your souls companion online. Then you must read this free info article first. I am going to save you years off your search and teach you how to avoid the thousands of annoying fake profiles currently online for free. THAT'S RIGHT FREE!
I have been surfing the net for years wondering in and out of websites cruising for the right one and the right people. Finally I have found my wife to be and i am here to share with you my finest secrets on how to use Free Online dating to its maximum and find your soul mate for little or No cost.
There are loads of websites on the market that offer everything. Some free and others that are very expensive. So what's the main difference between them? And how can you choose which ones are better suited to you?
To be honest I believe I would be a member of at least 10 dating sites. And let me say that at least 9 of them are garbage. Some Great site Qualities to look for when finding dating sites:
· Opening of the site is professional.
· Members pics on front page.
· Choose a site that isn't afraid to show how many members it has
· Often a site with fewer numbers gives you greater chances to be noticed by others.
· Look for a description of what the site offers before joining; make sure it's not a porn site.
The problem with the majority of free online dating sites is they attract a huge number of members from poor foreign countries. Often these members want to try and send you a scam offering huge financial returns for helping them out.
And the whole time all they really want is your banking details so they can rob you blind. I strongly suggest staying away from these sites. Find a site that charges very minimal rates to email others. And free to join. IT'S SAFER
Once you have joined a website don't pay right away for email usage. Upload a picture if you can, it increases your chances of people emailing you. Search for other member's profiles and send Virtual kisses first.
Once you can see other members are interested in you and that they are roughly the type of people you want to get to know then upgrade for a paid membership and begin communicating.
Now you have all the tools needed for a successful online dating campaign. Before you read this article you were probably a bit apprehensive about joining a dating site but think about all the things you just learnt.
· How to find real people
· How to pick a professional site
· How to play the numbers game successfully
· How to get noticed quicker
· How to test a site before you buy in
· The importance of advertising yourself
· Online dating security
· How to find your real soul mate
· What kind of sites to avoid
Free online dating is easy. Ticket4one.com is one the most trustworthy sources of online participants available to daters. Full of events and activities worldwide set up to bring people like you together. Our events and activities are similar to speed dating events only we don't do it at a bar or restaurant.
We actually get out in the real world and do things like 4x4 tours, Mystery bus tours, learn2surf, poker nights, self-help and motivational course and many more. Our statement is “ Real events for real people. To meet others in a No obligation stress free environment.”
Monday, August 17, 2009
Men's Online Dating Email Tips! Triple Your Dating!
Six online dating email tips that will triple your response and dates from the internet.
Dear friend,
Have you been dating online and are frustrated with poor responses to your emails? Or even worse, women not replying to your first emails at all? This is enough to make you give up isn’t it? Especially if you are recently divorced, split up and single. I know the feeling and have been there and felt the pain.
Well, I have good news for you because in this article I am giving away extremely valuable information for free. If you follow the steps I’m about to outline, you will have a lot of success with online dating. These online dating tips will triple your response and dates on the internet dating sites. Let’s have a look at them. These tips are specific to the FIRST contact email.
Email Tip #One
You must state at the beginning of your email that her profile stands out. E.g. ‘Hi Angel64, I’m Mick and I’m writing as you sound interesting to me and your profile stands out from the others.’ Then mention a few sentences of what you liked…without gushing or sucking up of course.
This will obviously please the lady and create her own interest in you. She will feel special and rightly so as you have chosen to contact her. She is the lucky one to get your attention.
Email Tip #Two
Be sure to mention and lightheartedly poke fun of something in her profile. E.g. ‘Do you really like Neil Diamond and ABBA?’ :-] [Just kidding]
Always put a smiley or [just kidding] in brackets so as not to offend. This says you are playful and not a soft guy that’s afraid to have some fun. She’ll appreciate your effort.
Email Tip #Four
Mention something specific in her profile that you found interesting. E.g. ‘So you worked in London for 12 months, I was there for two years…when were you there?’
This proves to her you have read her profile in detail and have something in common. This creates repore and her interest immediately.
Email Tip #Five
Ask something of interest about her. E.g. ‘You said you do dance lessons, what style…is it salsa? How often do you get out to dance…I like the club down on East esplanade on Friday nights. They have a great Latin band and free lessons from 7pm until 8pm.’
This gives her a specific question to reply to. Avoid questions that are mundane and common like, ‘What’s your favorite colour?’ Pick something she’s mentioned on her profile and ask her details on that…
Email Tip #Six
These tips are in sequence. Finish up and keep it brief. Four or Five paragraphs is enough. Don’t go on about yourself and spill your guts to her. Finish with a line that says something like this...
‘Why don’t we chat on the phone for a while and get to know each other. It saves time writing long emails… Here’s my number, Mick02 47476534. I’m home after 6.30 and you’ll catch me in some time. Or here is my cell phone # 098975643.
Look forward to your reply…
Take care Angel64
Mick.’
There you have it. These are very helpful and valuable tips that will save you time, money and heartache… You will definitely get THREE times the replies and dates by using these tips!
Good Luck.
All the best.
Regards
Mick Jones.
Author.
http://www.howtomeetwomenontheinternet.com
Dear friend,
Have you been dating online and are frustrated with poor responses to your emails? Or even worse, women not replying to your first emails at all? This is enough to make you give up isn’t it? Especially if you are recently divorced, split up and single. I know the feeling and have been there and felt the pain.
Well, I have good news for you because in this article I am giving away extremely valuable information for free. If you follow the steps I’m about to outline, you will have a lot of success with online dating. These online dating tips will triple your response and dates on the internet dating sites. Let’s have a look at them. These tips are specific to the FIRST contact email.
Email Tip #One
You must state at the beginning of your email that her profile stands out. E.g. ‘Hi Angel64, I’m Mick and I’m writing as you sound interesting to me and your profile stands out from the others.’ Then mention a few sentences of what you liked…without gushing or sucking up of course.
This will obviously please the lady and create her own interest in you. She will feel special and rightly so as you have chosen to contact her. She is the lucky one to get your attention.
Email Tip #Two
Be sure to mention and lightheartedly poke fun of something in her profile. E.g. ‘Do you really like Neil Diamond and ABBA?’ :-] [Just kidding]
Always put a smiley or [just kidding] in brackets so as not to offend. This says you are playful and not a soft guy that’s afraid to have some fun. She’ll appreciate your effort.
Email Tip #Four
Mention something specific in her profile that you found interesting. E.g. ‘So you worked in London for 12 months, I was there for two years…when were you there?’
This proves to her you have read her profile in detail and have something in common. This creates repore and her interest immediately.
Email Tip #Five
Ask something of interest about her. E.g. ‘You said you do dance lessons, what style…is it salsa? How often do you get out to dance…I like the club down on East esplanade on Friday nights. They have a great Latin band and free lessons from 7pm until 8pm.’
This gives her a specific question to reply to. Avoid questions that are mundane and common like, ‘What’s your favorite colour?’ Pick something she’s mentioned on her profile and ask her details on that…
Email Tip #Six
These tips are in sequence. Finish up and keep it brief. Four or Five paragraphs is enough. Don’t go on about yourself and spill your guts to her. Finish with a line that says something like this...
‘Why don’t we chat on the phone for a while and get to know each other. It saves time writing long emails… Here’s my number, Mick02 47476534. I’m home after 6.30 and you’ll catch me in some time. Or here is my cell phone # 098975643.
Look forward to your reply…
Take care Angel64
Mick.’
There you have it. These are very helpful and valuable tips that will save you time, money and heartache… You will definitely get THREE times the replies and dates by using these tips!
Good Luck.
All the best.
Regards
Mick Jones.
Author.
http://www.howtomeetwomenontheinternet.com
Sunday, August 16, 2009
Women, Hear These Dating Tips
For quite some time now or since time immemorial, many women have been embarking on that quest towards the elusive "Mr. Right". But how does one woman know if she is succeeding on the turf of dating or if she is mainly risking her safety?
Here are ways to know whether a woman is making the most out of her dating life without making her safety suffer.
Listen to your heart.
If intuition tells one that she is not striking a string with a certain main, she should follow her gut feel and dump the guy, gently that is. Dating is not about jumping on every person that shows interest. Settling for something less is not that good of an option.
Trust yourself.
This goes with the gut feel advice. If the man seems too good to be true, chances are, he really is not good for you. Don't be misled by saccharine promises. Learn to psychoanalyze a bit. Doing some background check surely won't hurt.
Feel the earth move under your feet. Nope, I'm not making you dance or something like that. What I mean is keep your self grounded. Don't be swept off by the giddy feeling all too suddenly.
Taking things in stride will keep you safe from being hurt if the guy or girl is not really what you expected him or her to be. Single dating is not carried out like an overnight success. Be consciously cautious.
Never give in to peer pressure. If your roommates know about your online dating escapade and are telling you to single out somebody that you think doesn't make the cut, you know, your standards, don't be swayed by them. If they want that guy, they can have him, right? Single dating is not supposed to be the decision of the group, apparently.
Being too desperate over a relationship will spoil the fun of single dating life. If you go against that nagging but "healthy" advice of your instinct that you're overdoing your dealings with your boyfriend and you better stop it or else…, it will be your loss, really.
For instance, you came to the point that you're relationship is about to end, in short, you're being dumped, but you're still doing too many things to patch things up, that's obviously being desperate.
Single dating is just single dating. If you thought of him as the future father of your babies but you're just a fling for him, for Pete's sake, obviously you're not in the same boat. Get out of that relationship, fast!
If all the while you've been aiming for that long-term relationship, here are few fool-proof tips on how to spot who's NOT the man.
1. He's overly unreliable. Promises to call you but he won't.
2. He does not let you in his intimate circle of friends.
3. He never spouts anything about your future together
4. He rushes you into his bed.
With those in mind, and you armored with presence of mind and a cautious but not paranoid attitude, you'll be well set off for the goodies of single dating. Go get him swooning over you!
Here are ways to know whether a woman is making the most out of her dating life without making her safety suffer.
Listen to your heart.
If intuition tells one that she is not striking a string with a certain main, she should follow her gut feel and dump the guy, gently that is. Dating is not about jumping on every person that shows interest. Settling for something less is not that good of an option.
Trust yourself.
This goes with the gut feel advice. If the man seems too good to be true, chances are, he really is not good for you. Don't be misled by saccharine promises. Learn to psychoanalyze a bit. Doing some background check surely won't hurt.
Feel the earth move under your feet. Nope, I'm not making you dance or something like that. What I mean is keep your self grounded. Don't be swept off by the giddy feeling all too suddenly.
Taking things in stride will keep you safe from being hurt if the guy or girl is not really what you expected him or her to be. Single dating is not carried out like an overnight success. Be consciously cautious.
Never give in to peer pressure. If your roommates know about your online dating escapade and are telling you to single out somebody that you think doesn't make the cut, you know, your standards, don't be swayed by them. If they want that guy, they can have him, right? Single dating is not supposed to be the decision of the group, apparently.
Being too desperate over a relationship will spoil the fun of single dating life. If you go against that nagging but "healthy" advice of your instinct that you're overdoing your dealings with your boyfriend and you better stop it or else…, it will be your loss, really.
For instance, you came to the point that you're relationship is about to end, in short, you're being dumped, but you're still doing too many things to patch things up, that's obviously being desperate.
Single dating is just single dating. If you thought of him as the future father of your babies but you're just a fling for him, for Pete's sake, obviously you're not in the same boat. Get out of that relationship, fast!
If all the while you've been aiming for that long-term relationship, here are few fool-proof tips on how to spot who's NOT the man.
1. He's overly unreliable. Promises to call you but he won't.
2. He does not let you in his intimate circle of friends.
3. He never spouts anything about your future together
4. He rushes you into his bed.
With those in mind, and you armored with presence of mind and a cautious but not paranoid attitude, you'll be well set off for the goodies of single dating. Go get him swooning over you!
Saturday, August 15, 2009
The History of Valentine’s Day
This article offers the history of Valentine’s Day according to some known legends. The mysterious origin of this traditional holiday makes it an even more exciting and romantic holiday.
Valentine’s Day is a very popular date for many people. Whether you are celebrating a new love, or a long-term relationship, or you’re at home sulking over a lost love, Valentine’s Day is a significant day for almost everyone. On this day across the country cards, flowers, candies, love letters, and cute and furry little stuffed animals are sent, given, and unwrapped every year.
Countless couples go to many different places for dates to show their significant others how much they care and value them. Have you ever wondered where Valentine’s Day originated and why it is as important and as popular as it is? The history of Valentine’s Day tells the story.
The origination of this popular holiday is all in the name of St. Valentine. Who is this saint? This saint is apparently a very mysterious entity. While mystery shrouds this holiday, what is known is that February has been a romantic month for a long time.
St. Valentine’s Day contains components of both Christian traditions and Ancient Roman traditions. The Catholic Church today recognizes at least three saints with the name of Valentine or Valentinus. All of these recognized saints were at one point in time martyred.
One legend that is circulating about this traditional holiday is that Valentine was a priest who had served during the third century in Rome. The Emperor of Rome at the time was Emperor Claudius II. He decided that single men, those without women or children to take care of and support made better soldiers than those who were married with children.
Because of the conclusion he came to, Claudius ordered the outlaw of marriage for young men, whom he viewed were his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine realized the injustice of such a decree and defied Claudius’s command by continuing to perform marriages for young lovers even though it was very dangerous for him to do so. When Claudius discovered the actions of Valentine, Claudius ordered that he immediately be put to death.
Other legends include suggestions that Valentine was killed while he was trying to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they were possibly being beaten and even tortured at times. So now you are wondering why he had to do with a holiday that is a famous day for lovers.
According to a legend, the first Valentine greeting was actually allegedly sent by Valentine himself. When he was in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love. The person he fell in love with was a young girl, possibly his captor’s daughter. She was said to have visited him during his confinement while in prison.
Before Valentine’s death, it is alleged that he wrote her a love letter. He signed this letter with the expression "From your Valentine". This expression is still used today on Valentine’s Day and is signed at the bottom of cards and Valentine gifts.
Though the real truth behind the Valentine legends is still somewhat of a mystery, what is clear is why Valentine is looked upon as a brave, compassionate, and romantic person. By the Middle Ages, Valentine was, not surprisingly, one of the most popular saints throughout England and France.
Valentine’s Day is a very popular date for many people. Whether you are celebrating a new love, or a long-term relationship, or you’re at home sulking over a lost love, Valentine’s Day is a significant day for almost everyone. On this day across the country cards, flowers, candies, love letters, and cute and furry little stuffed animals are sent, given, and unwrapped every year.
Countless couples go to many different places for dates to show their significant others how much they care and value them. Have you ever wondered where Valentine’s Day originated and why it is as important and as popular as it is? The history of Valentine’s Day tells the story.
The origination of this popular holiday is all in the name of St. Valentine. Who is this saint? This saint is apparently a very mysterious entity. While mystery shrouds this holiday, what is known is that February has been a romantic month for a long time.
St. Valentine’s Day contains components of both Christian traditions and Ancient Roman traditions. The Catholic Church today recognizes at least three saints with the name of Valentine or Valentinus. All of these recognized saints were at one point in time martyred.
One legend that is circulating about this traditional holiday is that Valentine was a priest who had served during the third century in Rome. The Emperor of Rome at the time was Emperor Claudius II. He decided that single men, those without women or children to take care of and support made better soldiers than those who were married with children.
Because of the conclusion he came to, Claudius ordered the outlaw of marriage for young men, whom he viewed were his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine realized the injustice of such a decree and defied Claudius’s command by continuing to perform marriages for young lovers even though it was very dangerous for him to do so. When Claudius discovered the actions of Valentine, Claudius ordered that he immediately be put to death.
Other legends include suggestions that Valentine was killed while he was trying to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they were possibly being beaten and even tortured at times. So now you are wondering why he had to do with a holiday that is a famous day for lovers.
According to a legend, the first Valentine greeting was actually allegedly sent by Valentine himself. When he was in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love. The person he fell in love with was a young girl, possibly his captor’s daughter. She was said to have visited him during his confinement while in prison.
Before Valentine’s death, it is alleged that he wrote her a love letter. He signed this letter with the expression "From your Valentine". This expression is still used today on Valentine’s Day and is signed at the bottom of cards and Valentine gifts.
Though the real truth behind the Valentine legends is still somewhat of a mystery, what is clear is why Valentine is looked upon as a brave, compassionate, and romantic person. By the Middle Ages, Valentine was, not surprisingly, one of the most popular saints throughout England and France.
Friday, August 14, 2009
The Rebound: An Emotional Hazard
This article offers reasons why dating on the rebound is hardly ever a good idea. The best thing to do when getting over an ex is to take time to yourself to heal and become an individual person again.
A relationship is one of life’s greatest gifts and pleasures. The break up of a relationship is one of life’s greatest disappointments and heartaches. Getting over that break up is definitely a lot easier said than done.
Many people fall into the trap of trying to get over an ex by starting to date someone new. This is what is called in the dating world a rebound. For several reasons a rebound is not a good idea, as a general rule.
The first reason is that usually when people date someone on the rebound, they are trying to replace their ex. The next reason is that if you realize you are not over your ex, you can end up hurting the person you just started dating. Another reason is that moving on with a new person right away doesn’t allow you to truly heal.
The first reason that dating on the rebound is not usually a good idea is that when you find someone new, you have a tendency to try to replace your ex right away, rather than just find someone to spend time with. You could unwittingly be mistaking residual feelings about your ex for feelings toward a new person.
Many times, a rebound relationship will go too far too quickly. You might find yourself in a serious relationship before you realize what is going on. A quick and immediate serious relationship right after the demise of a serious relationship is definitely not a good thing.
Another reason rebound relationships are an emotional hazard is because if you realize that you are not over your ex and want to end your new relationship, it can wreak havoc with the feelings of the new person you are dating.
You have thus proceeded to, whether intentionally or not, break the heart of your new companion. Leading someone on when you are still hooked on or hurt from another relationship is definitely not a nice thing to do.
One more reason to take your time getting back into the dating scene is that most people need time to heal after a long term relationship ends. Moving on immediately can be emotionally unhealthy. It is always a good idea to immerse yourself in spending time with friends and family that care about you, but moving on to a different dating partner may not be the best thing.
Besides spending time around people who care about you, get to know yourself as a single person. You may have been part of a couple for a long time. Get to know who you are as an individual again.
For these reasons, it is clear that dating on the rebound is not a bright idea. There are many things that can go wrong when you jump straight from one relationship immediately into another.
Instead of rebounding into a relationship that may not be healthy, stop, take a deep breath, and spend some quality time with yourself. Think about when you think you will feel comfortable in a new relationship.
Think about whether you even want another serious relationship in the near future or whether you want to spend time with many different people for awhile. Think about the kind of person you would want to be in a relationship with. Just take time out for you instead of getting trapped into the emotion hazard of rebounding.
A relationship is one of life’s greatest gifts and pleasures. The break up of a relationship is one of life’s greatest disappointments and heartaches. Getting over that break up is definitely a lot easier said than done.
Many people fall into the trap of trying to get over an ex by starting to date someone new. This is what is called in the dating world a rebound. For several reasons a rebound is not a good idea, as a general rule.
The first reason is that usually when people date someone on the rebound, they are trying to replace their ex. The next reason is that if you realize you are not over your ex, you can end up hurting the person you just started dating. Another reason is that moving on with a new person right away doesn’t allow you to truly heal.
The first reason that dating on the rebound is not usually a good idea is that when you find someone new, you have a tendency to try to replace your ex right away, rather than just find someone to spend time with. You could unwittingly be mistaking residual feelings about your ex for feelings toward a new person.
Many times, a rebound relationship will go too far too quickly. You might find yourself in a serious relationship before you realize what is going on. A quick and immediate serious relationship right after the demise of a serious relationship is definitely not a good thing.
Another reason rebound relationships are an emotional hazard is because if you realize that you are not over your ex and want to end your new relationship, it can wreak havoc with the feelings of the new person you are dating.
You have thus proceeded to, whether intentionally or not, break the heart of your new companion. Leading someone on when you are still hooked on or hurt from another relationship is definitely not a nice thing to do.
One more reason to take your time getting back into the dating scene is that most people need time to heal after a long term relationship ends. Moving on immediately can be emotionally unhealthy. It is always a good idea to immerse yourself in spending time with friends and family that care about you, but moving on to a different dating partner may not be the best thing.
Besides spending time around people who care about you, get to know yourself as a single person. You may have been part of a couple for a long time. Get to know who you are as an individual again.
For these reasons, it is clear that dating on the rebound is not a bright idea. There are many things that can go wrong when you jump straight from one relationship immediately into another.
Instead of rebounding into a relationship that may not be healthy, stop, take a deep breath, and spend some quality time with yourself. Think about when you think you will feel comfortable in a new relationship.
Think about whether you even want another serious relationship in the near future or whether you want to spend time with many different people for awhile. Think about the kind of person you would want to be in a relationship with. Just take time out for you instead of getting trapped into the emotion hazard of rebounding.
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Top 10 Online Dating Tips
Online dating allows individuals, couples and groups to meet online to develop a social, romantic or sexual relationship. Internet dating services provide unmoderated match making through the use of the Internet and personal computers.
Here are 10 tips to help in your quest for love online:
1. Create an introduction of yourself designed to attract the opposite sex. Don’t overdo it, put just the necessary information about yourself, and keep from revealing too much personal information. This is for your protection.
2. Avoid using too many adjectives in your profile. Keep descriptions basic and simple. Remember you are as much a stranger to others as they are to you.
3. List your interests and include specific details. If you write about a hobby, hiking for example, list specific places where you’ve hiked, or the hiking clubs you’ve joined.
4. Create a unique identity on the web. The online dating system is full of profiles that say almost the exact same thing. If you imitate this, you’ll be lost in the crowd. Always maintain your individuality to create an effective online dating presence.
5. Leave the clichйs to everyone else. Be creative enough so that you get attention and are able to experience what online dating is all about. But try to be as original, and sincere as you can.
6. Try not to brag, or brag too much. You won’t impress anyone with a rude attitude. Self-confidence is fine, but excessive bragging is definitely a TURN-OFF. If you’re good looking that will show in your photo, you have no need to use these words in your profile. If you claim intelligence, then be sure that your grammar is impeccable and your diction flawless.
7. Nobody responds to negativity. It’s not a good idea for depressed, lonely, frustrated or those just out of an unhappy relationship to plunge right into dating online since the negative emotions are likely to surface. People will shy away from reading your melodramatic profile. Online dating is supposed to be fun, not depressing.
8. Keep from defining yourself by people you DON’T want to meet. It is enough that your profile says you don’t want to meet somebody who is a liar, who is overweight or who is chronically unemployed. It is not necessary to over emphasize the matter by using this to introduce yourself to others.
9. Never forget to spell-check. You can do this by writing your profile in a word document, spell-checking it, then cutting and pasting the text into the profile area of the dating website.
10. Tell the truth as much as possible. However, reveal only information that won’t harm you in any way. Tell people about who you really are, the type of work you do, your family background, etc.
But, for your safety avoid mentioning information regarding how much money you make, or how many businesses you own, as well as any information of this nature that could be used to harm or defraud you.
Here are 10 tips to help in your quest for love online:
1. Create an introduction of yourself designed to attract the opposite sex. Don’t overdo it, put just the necessary information about yourself, and keep from revealing too much personal information. This is for your protection.
2. Avoid using too many adjectives in your profile. Keep descriptions basic and simple. Remember you are as much a stranger to others as they are to you.
3. List your interests and include specific details. If you write about a hobby, hiking for example, list specific places where you’ve hiked, or the hiking clubs you’ve joined.
4. Create a unique identity on the web. The online dating system is full of profiles that say almost the exact same thing. If you imitate this, you’ll be lost in the crowd. Always maintain your individuality to create an effective online dating presence.
5. Leave the clichйs to everyone else. Be creative enough so that you get attention and are able to experience what online dating is all about. But try to be as original, and sincere as you can.
6. Try not to brag, or brag too much. You won’t impress anyone with a rude attitude. Self-confidence is fine, but excessive bragging is definitely a TURN-OFF. If you’re good looking that will show in your photo, you have no need to use these words in your profile. If you claim intelligence, then be sure that your grammar is impeccable and your diction flawless.
7. Nobody responds to negativity. It’s not a good idea for depressed, lonely, frustrated or those just out of an unhappy relationship to plunge right into dating online since the negative emotions are likely to surface. People will shy away from reading your melodramatic profile. Online dating is supposed to be fun, not depressing.
8. Keep from defining yourself by people you DON’T want to meet. It is enough that your profile says you don’t want to meet somebody who is a liar, who is overweight or who is chronically unemployed. It is not necessary to over emphasize the matter by using this to introduce yourself to others.
9. Never forget to spell-check. You can do this by writing your profile in a word document, spell-checking it, then cutting and pasting the text into the profile area of the dating website.
10. Tell the truth as much as possible. However, reveal only information that won’t harm you in any way. Tell people about who you really are, the type of work you do, your family background, etc.
But, for your safety avoid mentioning information regarding how much money you make, or how many businesses you own, as well as any information of this nature that could be used to harm or defraud you.
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
UK Dating Statistics Reveals Positive Results for the Dating Industry
You would be surprised to know that the present society is witnessing more numbers of divorces than marriages. Here follows the top ten results of divorce percentages by country:
1. Belarus - 68%
2. Russian Federation – 65%
3. Sweden – 64%
4. Latvia – 63%
5. Ukraine – 63%
6. Czech Republic – 61%
7. Belgium – 56%
8. Finland – 56%
9. Lithuania – 55%
10. United Kingdom – 53%
The above numbers suggest that people are not maintaining long lasting relationships. Statistics like these and the increased rate of divorce fuels the growing popularity of UK dating web sites; many adults, especially those recently divorced or out of a serious long-term relationship, are no longer familiar with how to meet people socially and turn to the internet as a convenient tool for re-emerging into the dating world.
One of the leading UK dating web sites has conducted a survey of their member profiles. The results are very interesting:
• 53% have dated more than one person at the same time.
• 71% believe in love at first sight.
• 30% consider personality in choosing a mate; 14% consider sense of humor and 11% go by looks.
• 29% say unfaithfulness is the primary reason behind relationship break ups.
• 78% believe that his/her companion is not 100% honest with them.
• 25% believe that a casual dating partnership becomes a serious relationship when one says "I Love You."
• 67% don't trust their partners on the first date.
• 44% believe a 5 year gap should be maintained while choosing a mate.
• 69% are utilizing online dating web sites to find dates.
• Despite such a high divorce average in the UK, 44% of respondents want to marry again.
• 22% believe the work or office provides a great source for dates.
This is the dating scenario in the UK. The most encouraging fact for the UK dating web sites is that more than half of the singles are finding their partners online. Kisscafe (www.KissCafe.eu) has been providing dating services in the UK free of cost.
About Kisscafe
Kisscafe (www.KissaCafe.com) is one of the fastest growing social networking and dating websites in the World Wide Web. The best aspect of this dating service provider is that all the exclusive service features (which other popular networking sites provide as subscribed services) absolutely FREE.
Currently Kisscafe (www.KissCafe.com) has 22 international websites and plans to launch even more sites in additional countries. Efficient Instant Messenger, multilingual capabilities and advanced profile search technology has made Kisscafe one of the leading online dating service providers on the Web.
Kisscafe (www.KissCafe.com) member blogs are a great source of interesting posts related to the dating industry, including dating advice, personal stories and much more. For more details, you can log in to their site and compare their services with other dating sites.
1. Belarus - 68%
2. Russian Federation – 65%
3. Sweden – 64%
4. Latvia – 63%
5. Ukraine – 63%
6. Czech Republic – 61%
7. Belgium – 56%
8. Finland – 56%
9. Lithuania – 55%
10. United Kingdom – 53%
The above numbers suggest that people are not maintaining long lasting relationships. Statistics like these and the increased rate of divorce fuels the growing popularity of UK dating web sites; many adults, especially those recently divorced or out of a serious long-term relationship, are no longer familiar with how to meet people socially and turn to the internet as a convenient tool for re-emerging into the dating world.
One of the leading UK dating web sites has conducted a survey of their member profiles. The results are very interesting:
• 53% have dated more than one person at the same time.
• 71% believe in love at first sight.
• 30% consider personality in choosing a mate; 14% consider sense of humor and 11% go by looks.
• 29% say unfaithfulness is the primary reason behind relationship break ups.
• 78% believe that his/her companion is not 100% honest with them.
• 25% believe that a casual dating partnership becomes a serious relationship when one says "I Love You."
• 67% don't trust their partners on the first date.
• 44% believe a 5 year gap should be maintained while choosing a mate.
• 69% are utilizing online dating web sites to find dates.
• Despite such a high divorce average in the UK, 44% of respondents want to marry again.
• 22% believe the work or office provides a great source for dates.
This is the dating scenario in the UK. The most encouraging fact for the UK dating web sites is that more than half of the singles are finding their partners online. Kisscafe (www.KissCafe.eu) has been providing dating services in the UK free of cost.
About Kisscafe
Kisscafe (www.KissaCafe.com) is one of the fastest growing social networking and dating websites in the World Wide Web. The best aspect of this dating service provider is that all the exclusive service features (which other popular networking sites provide as subscribed services) absolutely FREE.
Currently Kisscafe (www.KissCafe.com) has 22 international websites and plans to launch even more sites in additional countries. Efficient Instant Messenger, multilingual capabilities and advanced profile search technology has made Kisscafe one of the leading online dating service providers on the Web.
Kisscafe (www.KissCafe.com) member blogs are a great source of interesting posts related to the dating industry, including dating advice, personal stories and much more. For more details, you can log in to their site and compare their services with other dating sites.
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
A platform for adults to date
Every day at least one new adult dating site is introduced and this is only because there are millions of adults who are looking for a mate or a life partner. They are all tired of meeting people through known sources and are taking the next step, trying to find them on their own from across the globe.
Thanks to the Internet, today people can be in touch with anyone virtually for any part of the world. And so these sites give the opportunity to meet a person from the opposite sex who meets our needs and fulfills our criteria.
For Adults it is essential to find someone who reciprocates the feelings and who shares common interests with them. They might be seeking to get married or simply find a love interest, either which would bring them happiness and complete their lives.
All the adult dating sites offer complete security and enable people to locate others who match their desires. They would then take it forward by exchanging contact information and see where it goes.
Going to the bar or a club was what all adults used earlier to find a friend or partner, but today they have no time nor the energy to spend hours sipping drinks and making idle conversations. They want it all easy and would love it if there was a system that could zero in on a person that would be perfect for them.
There are many who are seeking only a friend, or a short term relationship, they could find a person who shares the same thoughts. And for others looking for long term romantic relationships that could go on to marriage, there are people in that category as well.
Meeting, dining out, going out, spending time with each other are all what will ultimately determine if the relationship is going somewhere or not. For this, the adult dating sites offer a multitude of options whereby the member can key in their personal details, interests and other information to let the others know of what kind of a person they are. Based on the personalities, the members would then reach out and make a connection or move on.
Blind dates and match making sites have all lost their market, because people are not interested in meeting someone they have no clues about. It is always a risk, and a gamble going to meet a complete stranger. They could be a nice person, or in fact the very Mr or Ms Right you have been seeking, but its always better to be wary than foolhardy.
Before joining an adult dating site, do your ground work. Find out which are the genuine sites and what kind of process they follow. Some might be filled with unpleasant characters, while others might promise the mountains and not even deliver a trace of it.
Also since most sites require you to become a paid member, when making payments be careful when entering your credit card details and check for security.
Thanks to the Internet, today people can be in touch with anyone virtually for any part of the world. And so these sites give the opportunity to meet a person from the opposite sex who meets our needs and fulfills our criteria.
For Adults it is essential to find someone who reciprocates the feelings and who shares common interests with them. They might be seeking to get married or simply find a love interest, either which would bring them happiness and complete their lives.
All the adult dating sites offer complete security and enable people to locate others who match their desires. They would then take it forward by exchanging contact information and see where it goes.
Going to the bar or a club was what all adults used earlier to find a friend or partner, but today they have no time nor the energy to spend hours sipping drinks and making idle conversations. They want it all easy and would love it if there was a system that could zero in on a person that would be perfect for them.
There are many who are seeking only a friend, or a short term relationship, they could find a person who shares the same thoughts. And for others looking for long term romantic relationships that could go on to marriage, there are people in that category as well.
Meeting, dining out, going out, spending time with each other are all what will ultimately determine if the relationship is going somewhere or not. For this, the adult dating sites offer a multitude of options whereby the member can key in their personal details, interests and other information to let the others know of what kind of a person they are. Based on the personalities, the members would then reach out and make a connection or move on.
Blind dates and match making sites have all lost their market, because people are not interested in meeting someone they have no clues about. It is always a risk, and a gamble going to meet a complete stranger. They could be a nice person, or in fact the very Mr or Ms Right you have been seeking, but its always better to be wary than foolhardy.
Before joining an adult dating site, do your ground work. Find out which are the genuine sites and what kind of process they follow. Some might be filled with unpleasant characters, while others might promise the mountains and not even deliver a trace of it.
Also since most sites require you to become a paid member, when making payments be careful when entering your credit card details and check for security.
Monday, August 10, 2009
Dating – How to WIN Love
Love plays an important role in our lives. It is not about just loving somebody. It is much more than that. It’s all about sharing the finer feelings of life. Various researches have also shown that a good love life keeps you healthy. So what should you do make your LOVE happen. Read
Love will build your heart with its dreamy songs and create a magical world for you to live in. How will you ensure that they whom you love so much will love you? How will you be certain of winning love?
Undertake this visual. Enjoy this constant pleasure that it will bring you. And feel for yourself how wonderful your love life has become.
You are in love with someone. You want that someone to love you too. What do you do? Simple! Visualize! Remember, love has everything to do with your heart and mind. If you can keep your heart healthy and in good relation with you, then you can have all the love you want.
Picture your heart. You may visualize it like am actual biological heart, or it may even be a symbolic valentine heart.
Go ahead and ask your heart about how it is feeling today. Is it feeling sad? Lonely? Disappointed? Understand the way it is feeling. Hear what it has to say to you. Then tell your heart that you are trying to make it feel better.
What is the condition of your heart? Is it sad? Or is it youthful. Does it look healthy? Or is it torn or wounded? Is it wounded? Now repair your heart. You have all the tools required. If it is torn at places, stitch them. If it is wounded, then treat it’s wound.
When your heart looks healthy, fill it to the brim with light. Imagine the shining light flow into your heart and reach it’s every nook and corner. Your heart is not only healthy now it even feels alive. Listen to your heartbeats?
Make it feel good. Thank your heart for keeping you alive. Applaud its tireless performance. The more you thank your heart, the healthier it gets.
Now that your heart is healthy and happy, you are now ready to win love. Picture the person you love or whom you desire the most. See the person clearly? How does she/he look? What color is the hair? What kind of clothes he/she is wearing? How tall is the person? Is there any gesture that is distinctively his/hers?
Let the person appear in front of you. How far is the person? Bring him/her closer to at the most five feet away from you. Now, picture your healthy heart connected to his/her heart. You may use any material you like for connection. A rope, chain, satin ribbon – it can be just anything. It can be even imaginary. The goal is to connect love to love, so a sense of energy flows between you both.
Once you have connected love, visualize yourself doing something loving to the person you love. Do anything that people who love each other does. Walk hand in hand, go for a dance, sit across for some ice cream, love each other, hug each other – you may even kiss each other.
The more you visualize the person you love in the way described above, the stronger the love flows between you both. Until one day, you really embrace and kiss the person to say how much you love her/him.
And if ever you feel that love is beginning to fade, go through the visualization again.
Let LOVE live forever.
Love will build your heart with its dreamy songs and create a magical world for you to live in. How will you ensure that they whom you love so much will love you? How will you be certain of winning love?
Undertake this visual. Enjoy this constant pleasure that it will bring you. And feel for yourself how wonderful your love life has become.
You are in love with someone. You want that someone to love you too. What do you do? Simple! Visualize! Remember, love has everything to do with your heart and mind. If you can keep your heart healthy and in good relation with you, then you can have all the love you want.
Picture your heart. You may visualize it like am actual biological heart, or it may even be a symbolic valentine heart.
Go ahead and ask your heart about how it is feeling today. Is it feeling sad? Lonely? Disappointed? Understand the way it is feeling. Hear what it has to say to you. Then tell your heart that you are trying to make it feel better.
What is the condition of your heart? Is it sad? Or is it youthful. Does it look healthy? Or is it torn or wounded? Is it wounded? Now repair your heart. You have all the tools required. If it is torn at places, stitch them. If it is wounded, then treat it’s wound.
When your heart looks healthy, fill it to the brim with light. Imagine the shining light flow into your heart and reach it’s every nook and corner. Your heart is not only healthy now it even feels alive. Listen to your heartbeats?
Make it feel good. Thank your heart for keeping you alive. Applaud its tireless performance. The more you thank your heart, the healthier it gets.
Now that your heart is healthy and happy, you are now ready to win love. Picture the person you love or whom you desire the most. See the person clearly? How does she/he look? What color is the hair? What kind of clothes he/she is wearing? How tall is the person? Is there any gesture that is distinctively his/hers?
Let the person appear in front of you. How far is the person? Bring him/her closer to at the most five feet away from you. Now, picture your healthy heart connected to his/her heart. You may use any material you like for connection. A rope, chain, satin ribbon – it can be just anything. It can be even imaginary. The goal is to connect love to love, so a sense of energy flows between you both.
Once you have connected love, visualize yourself doing something loving to the person you love. Do anything that people who love each other does. Walk hand in hand, go for a dance, sit across for some ice cream, love each other, hug each other – you may even kiss each other.
The more you visualize the person you love in the way described above, the stronger the love flows between you both. Until one day, you really embrace and kiss the person to say how much you love her/him.
And if ever you feel that love is beginning to fade, go through the visualization again.
Let LOVE live forever.
Sunday, August 9, 2009
The Role Of Secrecy In Romance Scams
The menace of romance scams again re-echoed recently at the media –hyped trial of the wife of a clergyman who allegedly murdered her husband.
She apparently had cashed some fraudulent checks sent to her by a fraud syndicate working from Nigeria and Canada.
She seemed to have sent some money to the fraudsters, and was said to have tried to cover up the fraud with the bank officials.
It was during an argument with her husband, a minister in the Methodist church, over this expense that she allegedly shot him.
This story should tell anyone who cares to listen one home truth-that romance scams and other related crimes are very real, and they are affecting the lives of many more people than was previously thought, both in the United States and elsewhere.
While very few of such cases will ever hit the National limelight and be as sensational as the one described above, the reality is that many people are being harmed by romance scams than was previously thought.
One of the major factors that make people to succumb to these scams so easily is secrecy.
The tendency among those who are involved in online dating is to keep details about their dates a secret to themselves.
From all I have seen, heard and read, many people who have fallen for the scams kept the knowledge of the relationship away from anyone, including those who should know about it.
And when a close person to them either got to know somehow, or got a hint as to what was going on, they literally got mad with them.
Some scam victim’s keep on dating the guy or girl for months, keeping everything about him or her secret.
The scammers seem to encourage this sort of thing too.
With time, when the scammers have worked hard to gain the trust and confidence of their potential target, then the fraudulent checks, money orders, credit cards and other fraudulent items involved in the scam begin to arrive.
The warning signals are always there quite alright, but by this time, the victim is far too much in love with the scammer to ever believe that they could be wrong.
The next thing that happens is the scam proper, in which the victim loses hundreds or thousands of dollars.
If you are involved with dating online, then it could be very helpful to let one or two close people into your life, and let them know what is going on.
That way, if things go wrong or they appear to be, you know you have one or two people who can help put you on the right track.
Many victims I talked with in the course of my research expressed their regrets that they did not have anyone to watch out for them when they were being scammed.
They pointed out that if they had been more open, and confided in someone they trusted, they would have been spared the much pain and agony that followed the romance scams.
She apparently had cashed some fraudulent checks sent to her by a fraud syndicate working from Nigeria and Canada.
She seemed to have sent some money to the fraudsters, and was said to have tried to cover up the fraud with the bank officials.
It was during an argument with her husband, a minister in the Methodist church, over this expense that she allegedly shot him.
This story should tell anyone who cares to listen one home truth-that romance scams and other related crimes are very real, and they are affecting the lives of many more people than was previously thought, both in the United States and elsewhere.
While very few of such cases will ever hit the National limelight and be as sensational as the one described above, the reality is that many people are being harmed by romance scams than was previously thought.
One of the major factors that make people to succumb to these scams so easily is secrecy.
The tendency among those who are involved in online dating is to keep details about their dates a secret to themselves.
From all I have seen, heard and read, many people who have fallen for the scams kept the knowledge of the relationship away from anyone, including those who should know about it.
And when a close person to them either got to know somehow, or got a hint as to what was going on, they literally got mad with them.
Some scam victim’s keep on dating the guy or girl for months, keeping everything about him or her secret.
The scammers seem to encourage this sort of thing too.
With time, when the scammers have worked hard to gain the trust and confidence of their potential target, then the fraudulent checks, money orders, credit cards and other fraudulent items involved in the scam begin to arrive.
The warning signals are always there quite alright, but by this time, the victim is far too much in love with the scammer to ever believe that they could be wrong.
The next thing that happens is the scam proper, in which the victim loses hundreds or thousands of dollars.
If you are involved with dating online, then it could be very helpful to let one or two close people into your life, and let them know what is going on.
That way, if things go wrong or they appear to be, you know you have one or two people who can help put you on the right track.
Many victims I talked with in the course of my research expressed their regrets that they did not have anyone to watch out for them when they were being scammed.
They pointed out that if they had been more open, and confided in someone they trusted, they would have been spared the much pain and agony that followed the romance scams.
Saturday, August 8, 2009
Dating Advice For Men - Essential Guide
Men in particular are under a lot of pressure on the first few dates simply because they are expected to take the lead. My Dating Advice For Men article will help you with these matters.
When it comes to dating, it's not just the women who worry about, will he like me, will we get on, what shall I wear etc etc. In actual fact, most man go through all the above fears just like women do. It would be nice if we could read just one book or article and know everything we need to know about women, relationships and dating. Unfortunately it doesn't work that way.
The best dating advice often seems to come from people who have been in the same situations as ourselves and have gained some comforting wisdom that we can relate to.
When dating, the thing we should always remember is that advice is simply what someone else thinks might assist you. The person giving this advice may not necessarily have any idea of your true state of mind of your particular circumstances, therefore it is always important to take note of what advice you have been given, others opinions are valuable, as it may help you to form your own opinion on what's right for you.
Below are some helpful hints and advice, some may suit you and others may not. Remember these hints are not set in stone, you may want to adjust some to suit your own personal goals.
1. The worst thing you could do when going on a date is to turn up unshaven and looking dirty. You would be appalled if she turned up in the same state. It may be fickle but unfortunately it's true appearances count for a lot.
2. Whatever you do, don't turn up late, you will definitely give her the wrong impression. Not only will she think you've stood her up, she will also think you're unreliable.
3. Be a gentleman, open the door for her, pull out her chair in the restaurant. Women like to feel special, treat her like a lady and you'll do well.
4. Compliment her. A woman loves to be complimented, even if she doesn't show it. Don't go overboard though, but let her feel you are attracted to her.
5. Ask questions and genuinely listen to her answers. After all you are going on a date to get to know her. There is nothing more that a woman likes than when someone is interested in what they have to say.
6. Prepare yourself for the date. Think about what it is you would like to find out about her. Also think about what she might ask you. The last thing you want is for the conversation to dry up half way into the date.
7. It is advisable that you dont bring up adult matters or sex toys for example on at least the first 3 dates. In the long run this can only do you good and she will certainly be more interested in you if you hold back.
8. When it comes to paying the bill, offer to pay. If she insists on paying, then offer to go halves and split the bill.
9. What about the goodnight kiss? Some women prefer not to kiss after a first date, while others will be disappointed if you don't. Judge the situation for yourself, her body language will give you a good idea of what's right.
10. When leaving, only ask for her number or tell her you will call if you really mean it. In the long run this will be best for both of you. If you do like her and are interested, then don't be afraid to let her know.
When it comes to dating, it's not just the women who worry about, will he like me, will we get on, what shall I wear etc etc. In actual fact, most man go through all the above fears just like women do. It would be nice if we could read just one book or article and know everything we need to know about women, relationships and dating. Unfortunately it doesn't work that way.
The best dating advice often seems to come from people who have been in the same situations as ourselves and have gained some comforting wisdom that we can relate to.
When dating, the thing we should always remember is that advice is simply what someone else thinks might assist you. The person giving this advice may not necessarily have any idea of your true state of mind of your particular circumstances, therefore it is always important to take note of what advice you have been given, others opinions are valuable, as it may help you to form your own opinion on what's right for you.
Below are some helpful hints and advice, some may suit you and others may not. Remember these hints are not set in stone, you may want to adjust some to suit your own personal goals.
1. The worst thing you could do when going on a date is to turn up unshaven and looking dirty. You would be appalled if she turned up in the same state. It may be fickle but unfortunately it's true appearances count for a lot.
2. Whatever you do, don't turn up late, you will definitely give her the wrong impression. Not only will she think you've stood her up, she will also think you're unreliable.
3. Be a gentleman, open the door for her, pull out her chair in the restaurant. Women like to feel special, treat her like a lady and you'll do well.
4. Compliment her. A woman loves to be complimented, even if she doesn't show it. Don't go overboard though, but let her feel you are attracted to her.
5. Ask questions and genuinely listen to her answers. After all you are going on a date to get to know her. There is nothing more that a woman likes than when someone is interested in what they have to say.
6. Prepare yourself for the date. Think about what it is you would like to find out about her. Also think about what she might ask you. The last thing you want is for the conversation to dry up half way into the date.
7. It is advisable that you dont bring up adult matters or sex toys for example on at least the first 3 dates. In the long run this can only do you good and she will certainly be more interested in you if you hold back.
8. When it comes to paying the bill, offer to pay. If she insists on paying, then offer to go halves and split the bill.
9. What about the goodnight kiss? Some women prefer not to kiss after a first date, while others will be disappointed if you don't. Judge the situation for yourself, her body language will give you a good idea of what's right.
10. When leaving, only ask for her number or tell her you will call if you really mean it. In the long run this will be best for both of you. If you do like her and are interested, then don't be afraid to let her know.
Friday, August 7, 2009
The Dating-Game: Rules For Fixing Up Friends
We all know how great it feels to find the mate of your dreams and sharing your life and all its special moments with someone special that we can’t wait to share our good news and our good "fortune" with others.
In fact, we can't wait for all our friends to share in the same happiness we've found and frequently can't help playing the "Good Samaritan" or should I say Cupid.
But playing matchmaker for someone or someones you care about can be a risky challenge, especially if things don't work out (as planned).
1. Define Your Motives: Ask yourself "why" you want to set the couple up. Do you really think they’d be a good match or is it that you want to keep your girlfriend around for company (but she doesn't feel comfortable as the "third wheel") or that you secretly have an attraction to the guy/gal and want a convenient way of keeping them frequently hanging around.
2. Use Their Judgment NOT (necessarily) Yours: Before introducing your two associates or friends, put yourself inside their minds and shoes. Determine beforehand and before getting either of their hopes up if THEY will feel they are compatible.
Do they like the same things, do you think they'll be physically attracted to one another, do they have the same set of ethics or sense of humor. While nothing is "perfect", you should at least get a good sense about their compatibility.
3. Keep Some Things To Yourself: Allow for some "intrigue" and "mystery" and eliminate any potential for "negativity". While it's important to be specific about some things, like the fact that your friend is a vegetarian or that he's short and has an earring, there's no need to reveal intimate details that may damage their chances before they have a chance to meet.
4. Offer Your Support: Whether you suggest hosting a dinner or having you and your date or mate join then to ease the tension and break the ice, let each know you are there "IF" they want you to be. But, if they are more comfortable on their own, respect their wishes. Remember, your enthusiasm combined with your presence may only serve to make the situation more tense and awkward.
5. Call It A Night: If you "do" join your friends and things (seem) to be going well, know that after dinner is your cue to leave. After all, three can be a crowd. And, remember, once you do your part let "nature" takes it's course, so avoid acting as the go-between.
6. Be Prepared: Chances are you are more excited about this than either of your friends. In fact, unless they already know and have hinted at liking each other, they are entering the date with caution and trepidation. Expect things NOT to work out, and if they do you'll be in for a pleasant surprise. And, don't forget to NOT let this affect your efforts or your relationship with either of them.
In fact, we can't wait for all our friends to share in the same happiness we've found and frequently can't help playing the "Good Samaritan" or should I say Cupid.
But playing matchmaker for someone or someones you care about can be a risky challenge, especially if things don't work out (as planned).
1. Define Your Motives: Ask yourself "why" you want to set the couple up. Do you really think they’d be a good match or is it that you want to keep your girlfriend around for company (but she doesn't feel comfortable as the "third wheel") or that you secretly have an attraction to the guy/gal and want a convenient way of keeping them frequently hanging around.
2. Use Their Judgment NOT (necessarily) Yours: Before introducing your two associates or friends, put yourself inside their minds and shoes. Determine beforehand and before getting either of their hopes up if THEY will feel they are compatible.
Do they like the same things, do you think they'll be physically attracted to one another, do they have the same set of ethics or sense of humor. While nothing is "perfect", you should at least get a good sense about their compatibility.
3. Keep Some Things To Yourself: Allow for some "intrigue" and "mystery" and eliminate any potential for "negativity". While it's important to be specific about some things, like the fact that your friend is a vegetarian or that he's short and has an earring, there's no need to reveal intimate details that may damage their chances before they have a chance to meet.
4. Offer Your Support: Whether you suggest hosting a dinner or having you and your date or mate join then to ease the tension and break the ice, let each know you are there "IF" they want you to be. But, if they are more comfortable on their own, respect their wishes. Remember, your enthusiasm combined with your presence may only serve to make the situation more tense and awkward.
5. Call It A Night: If you "do" join your friends and things (seem) to be going well, know that after dinner is your cue to leave. After all, three can be a crowd. And, remember, once you do your part let "nature" takes it's course, so avoid acting as the go-between.
6. Be Prepared: Chances are you are more excited about this than either of your friends. In fact, unless they already know and have hinted at liking each other, they are entering the date with caution and trepidation. Expect things NOT to work out, and if they do you'll be in for a pleasant surprise. And, don't forget to NOT let this affect your efforts or your relationship with either of them.
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Reasons to Write a Break Up Poem
This article offers reasons that a break up poem might be written. Some reasons are positive; some reasons are not-so positive. Whatever the reason, break up poems are a popular way used to end a relationship.
There are many reasons to write a break up poem. Everyone knows that breaking up is a most difficult part of relationships and life. Break ups happen to almost everyone; it is just a part of life.
There are different ways to break up, and writing a break up poem is one of them. Reasons to write a break up poem to end a relationship include: you might want to be sentimental and let the person know you really care, but it is just not working out.
Another reason is that you feel a break up poem will your loved one down easier than a big confrontation. One other reason to write a break up poem may be that you wish to leave behind some sort of memory that isn’t bad. Another, not-so-positive reason to write a break up poem is that you want to be vindictive and inflict as much pain on your ex as possible.
One reason you may want to write a break up poem is that you want to let the person know you still care for them but you don’t think the relationship is working out. Sometimes, people can care for one another, but feel that a relationship is not going where they want it to.
It is not a break up situation where the partners hate each other. Therefore you may want to express that. A break up poem is a definite way to express such feelings.
Another reason you may compose a break up poem is that you want to let your loved one down as easy as possible and you think that a break up poem is a good way to do that. Break up poems can be very good when you want to gently let someone down after a long or serious relationship.
It shows the person you used to date that you cared enough to take the time to write a poem from the heart, yet there is no emotional outburst that can lead to even more hurt feelings.
One final reason that you may want to write a break up poem for your partner is that you want to leave a good remembrance of the good times in your relationship with your loved one.
You may still want to be friends with your ex and leaving a heartfelt, sincere poem might be a way to let your ex know that you wish them all the luck in life. This shows you care and wish to be civil even after you have broken up.
Another reason, not as noble as the first few, to write a break up poem is that you want to be hurtful and leave a nasty break up poem. This is a low blow.
The only reason a break up poem is written in this case is in order to inflict as much of a parting shot as possible as the person is walking out the door. This definitely does not make for a peaceful and amiable parting of ways. It can bring on some pretty nasty conflict.
There are plenty of reasons to write a break up poem. The intentions behind the break up poem make an impact on how the poem is received. Sometimes, the motivation for composing a break up poem is purely because you care about the person and you want them to know that your wish all the best.
Sometimes, the motivation is not so positive and you are just trying to do whatever you can to hurt them because you feel like you yourself have been hurt. Whatever the reason, break up poems are used often.
There are many reasons to write a break up poem. Everyone knows that breaking up is a most difficult part of relationships and life. Break ups happen to almost everyone; it is just a part of life.
There are different ways to break up, and writing a break up poem is one of them. Reasons to write a break up poem to end a relationship include: you might want to be sentimental and let the person know you really care, but it is just not working out.
Another reason is that you feel a break up poem will your loved one down easier than a big confrontation. One other reason to write a break up poem may be that you wish to leave behind some sort of memory that isn’t bad. Another, not-so-positive reason to write a break up poem is that you want to be vindictive and inflict as much pain on your ex as possible.
One reason you may want to write a break up poem is that you want to let the person know you still care for them but you don’t think the relationship is working out. Sometimes, people can care for one another, but feel that a relationship is not going where they want it to.
It is not a break up situation where the partners hate each other. Therefore you may want to express that. A break up poem is a definite way to express such feelings.
Another reason you may compose a break up poem is that you want to let your loved one down as easy as possible and you think that a break up poem is a good way to do that. Break up poems can be very good when you want to gently let someone down after a long or serious relationship.
It shows the person you used to date that you cared enough to take the time to write a poem from the heart, yet there is no emotional outburst that can lead to even more hurt feelings.
One final reason that you may want to write a break up poem for your partner is that you want to leave a good remembrance of the good times in your relationship with your loved one.
You may still want to be friends with your ex and leaving a heartfelt, sincere poem might be a way to let your ex know that you wish them all the luck in life. This shows you care and wish to be civil even after you have broken up.
Another reason, not as noble as the first few, to write a break up poem is that you want to be hurtful and leave a nasty break up poem. This is a low blow.
The only reason a break up poem is written in this case is in order to inflict as much of a parting shot as possible as the person is walking out the door. This definitely does not make for a peaceful and amiable parting of ways. It can bring on some pretty nasty conflict.
There are plenty of reasons to write a break up poem. The intentions behind the break up poem make an impact on how the poem is received. Sometimes, the motivation for composing a break up poem is purely because you care about the person and you want them to know that your wish all the best.
Sometimes, the motivation is not so positive and you are just trying to do whatever you can to hurt them because you feel like you yourself have been hurt. Whatever the reason, break up poems are used often.
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Online Dating!!!
Finding the right person to date has never been a simple task, sometimes no matter how hard you try there is always a feeling, that there is someone out there just for you that you are not able to find. Finding your right half consumes lots and lots of time and money.
Welcome to the world of online dating. You no longer have to search someone special through your friends circle, just log on to a online dating site and you are ready to go to find your better half. It is reverse kind of phenomenon, in which a person understands one’s aspirations and expectations via internet and finally decides to meet in person.
There are many benefits that glorify this concept. Anonymity is the first and foremost benefit that online dating provides you. You may hide your vital information including contacts, address, surnames and so on. This provides you a freedom to know the person better without a fear of being revealed. You may choose to be anonymous if you wish to until you trust a particular chap.
Security, moreover, is other benefit which invites ladies for online dating whole heartedly. No more you need to fear unwanted person to disturb you and interrupt your search for a right match. In case someone gets on you, you may block him and continue with your search. Just logging onto a right dating site can get you access to millions of prospects to go through.
Just a few words regarding your online dating venture:
* Don’t be half hearted and get ready for risk bearing. Not all ventures go 100% successful, hence, it is important to prepare yourself for some let downs. Be sure what you want and get a through research work done before actual dating.
* Spoil yourself. Treat yourself with good and new clothes and get some shopping stuff that relaxes and you and provide better confidence then ever.
* Decide in advance the reasons you are dating for. Be sure, what you want from your partner and does the search satisfy your dating goal. Be sure if you are seeking for nice companionship or you are seeking for a life partner or so.
* Boost up your confidence before going for any sorts of date. Attending social functions and getting along with your friends would surely enhance a positive aura around you.
* Decide the meeting place in advance. Be sure, the place to be public enough. Although night clubs prove to be a bad idea for meeting for first time. Obviously you would not like to scream into ears to get your views conveyed to your partner. Choose a place like a coffee shop that proves to be ideal to talk to.
* Most importantly, enjoyment is the key for dating. After all this is the reason you are dating for.
Welcome to the world of online dating. You no longer have to search someone special through your friends circle, just log on to a online dating site and you are ready to go to find your better half. It is reverse kind of phenomenon, in which a person understands one’s aspirations and expectations via internet and finally decides to meet in person.
There are many benefits that glorify this concept. Anonymity is the first and foremost benefit that online dating provides you. You may hide your vital information including contacts, address, surnames and so on. This provides you a freedom to know the person better without a fear of being revealed. You may choose to be anonymous if you wish to until you trust a particular chap.
Security, moreover, is other benefit which invites ladies for online dating whole heartedly. No more you need to fear unwanted person to disturb you and interrupt your search for a right match. In case someone gets on you, you may block him and continue with your search. Just logging onto a right dating site can get you access to millions of prospects to go through.
Just a few words regarding your online dating venture:
* Don’t be half hearted and get ready for risk bearing. Not all ventures go 100% successful, hence, it is important to prepare yourself for some let downs. Be sure what you want and get a through research work done before actual dating.
* Spoil yourself. Treat yourself with good and new clothes and get some shopping stuff that relaxes and you and provide better confidence then ever.
* Decide in advance the reasons you are dating for. Be sure, what you want from your partner and does the search satisfy your dating goal. Be sure if you are seeking for nice companionship or you are seeking for a life partner or so.
* Boost up your confidence before going for any sorts of date. Attending social functions and getting along with your friends would surely enhance a positive aura around you.
* Decide the meeting place in advance. Be sure, the place to be public enough. Although night clubs prove to be a bad idea for meeting for first time. Obviously you would not like to scream into ears to get your views conveyed to your partner. Choose a place like a coffee shop that proves to be ideal to talk to.
* Most importantly, enjoyment is the key for dating. After all this is the reason you are dating for.
Tuesday, August 4, 2009
Fun Date Ideas For Couples
This article offers advice on what items to take in consideration when deciding where to take your sweetheart on a fun date for just the two of you. Periodically going on private outings with your significant other can definitely help keep your relationship close and caring.
Many people think of dates as something for young, new couples who are in love. This is true. However, when people say that, they think fun dating trips and outings are exclusive to this group of people.
This is not the case. Couples who have been together just a short time as well as couples who have been together for several years both deserve to treat their relationships to fun date ideas to keep their relationships enjoyable. Keeping a relationship new with periodic dates for just the two of you is a great way to stay close as a couple.
The ways to decide on what kind of date you are going to take your loved one on include common interests, experiences you have had, and sharing ideas.
One of the first things to consider when deciding on where to take your significant other on a date is the interests that you have in common with each other. Many times, couples have several things in common, but have things that they do not share as well. When you are considering a place to take a date, always consider whether or not your date will appreciate your idea.
If you are really into football, and your date is not, perhaps it is not the smartest thing to do to take your date to a football game. If you both like go-cart driving, this is a terrific date idea for the two of you.
Another thing to consider when trying to decide the location of a great date is to remember the experiences that you and your loved one have already had. If there is something that you have already done, and you have an opportunity to do something new and different, before you take the habitual date that you have already had, consider a new option instead of the same old thing.
Keeping your mind open to sharing new experiences with your loved one is a good way to get closer to each other.
One other thing to think about when trying to decide on a date location is the sharing of ideas. When you are dating and trying to become closer by having common experiences with your loved one, it is very important that both parties have the opportunity for inputting ideas on where to go. If one party does all of the deciding, the other party could become resentful and begin to dislike not being able to ever choose date locations.
A recommendation might be to do every-other dates. Every-other dates are dates where your loved one chooses, then you choose, and so on and so forth. By sharing ideas and sacrificing your likes and dislikes sometimes, you can have a happier relationship by allowing the other person to have a say.
Wherever you decide to take a date with your loved one, be sure to consider the three aspects that have been included in this article. Considering these three things will help you to have a better time at whatever type of date you decide to go on.
Remember to take into consideration common interests between you and your loved one, previous dates and experiences that you have been on with your loved one, and the sharing of ideas when deciding where to go for a great date.
Many people think of dates as something for young, new couples who are in love. This is true. However, when people say that, they think fun dating trips and outings are exclusive to this group of people.
This is not the case. Couples who have been together just a short time as well as couples who have been together for several years both deserve to treat their relationships to fun date ideas to keep their relationships enjoyable. Keeping a relationship new with periodic dates for just the two of you is a great way to stay close as a couple.
The ways to decide on what kind of date you are going to take your loved one on include common interests, experiences you have had, and sharing ideas.
One of the first things to consider when deciding on where to take your significant other on a date is the interests that you have in common with each other. Many times, couples have several things in common, but have things that they do not share as well. When you are considering a place to take a date, always consider whether or not your date will appreciate your idea.
If you are really into football, and your date is not, perhaps it is not the smartest thing to do to take your date to a football game. If you both like go-cart driving, this is a terrific date idea for the two of you.
Another thing to consider when trying to decide the location of a great date is to remember the experiences that you and your loved one have already had. If there is something that you have already done, and you have an opportunity to do something new and different, before you take the habitual date that you have already had, consider a new option instead of the same old thing.
Keeping your mind open to sharing new experiences with your loved one is a good way to get closer to each other.
One other thing to think about when trying to decide on a date location is the sharing of ideas. When you are dating and trying to become closer by having common experiences with your loved one, it is very important that both parties have the opportunity for inputting ideas on where to go. If one party does all of the deciding, the other party could become resentful and begin to dislike not being able to ever choose date locations.
A recommendation might be to do every-other dates. Every-other dates are dates where your loved one chooses, then you choose, and so on and so forth. By sharing ideas and sacrificing your likes and dislikes sometimes, you can have a happier relationship by allowing the other person to have a say.
Wherever you decide to take a date with your loved one, be sure to consider the three aspects that have been included in this article. Considering these three things will help you to have a better time at whatever type of date you decide to go on.
Remember to take into consideration common interests between you and your loved one, previous dates and experiences that you have been on with your loved one, and the sharing of ideas when deciding where to go for a great date.
Monday, August 3, 2009
9 Secrets to Get a Date After One Hour and 15 Minutes of Flirting Online!
If you are trying to pick up women online and
just can't get at least one date a week you
certainly need a little help. Just read this
article and start using these online flirting
success tips and they will help you to get that
first date much faster.
You don't want to spend too much time online
because you really can't feel the chemistry
until the first “real world” date. However,
you can get the women you're talking
to to be interested in you and set her “
on fire” just to get to know you better.
Keep in mind that women feel attraction for a very
different set of reasons than men do. Where men
focus more on looks, women focus more on
personality, self esteem, power and confidence.
So, what are the secrets to get a date after one
hour and 15 minutes of flirting online?
1. Make your replies simple and use easy
questions. Concentrate on the conversation, not
on getting a date. Remember that flirting is a
way of connecting from the heart and
acknowledging someone. Most women want to know
what kind of person they are going out with.
2. Women always fall for men who are a little bit
unreachable. Think of yourself as special and
know what you deserve.
3. Be yourself. The underlying key to all
flirtation is confidence, the magical charm that
makes others want to get to know you.
4. Be funny but in the same time a little bit
arrogant. It creates a wonderful, entertaining
challenge that women just love to engage in...
If you make a naughty, fun comment, something she
is NOT expecting, then something magical begins
to happen: she feels a spark of attraction,
curiosity, intrigue because you're obviously
different.
5. People like people who are interested in them.
So when you engage someone in conversation make
sure you spend at least 62% of the time listening
to THEM!
6.When you are talking about you, tell enough
just to get her trust but keep a little mystery
about you.
7. Never ever make yourself to available. In one
hour of online conversation you have to make her
believe that you're confident, that you're
intelligent and funny. Don't stay any longer or
you risk to become boring.
8. Find an excuse and just go, but not before you
let her know that you're interested in her. Set
another online date but not for the next day. You
are a busy guy! Let her heat up a little bit. :)
9. At the second date (online), after 15 minutes
of talking, just say “Hey, I have some spare time
this evening, can we meet? I just want to...
convince myself that you are real.”
This way, she will be surprised and
won't have to much time to make the decision
and you will run less risk of being rejected.
If she is interested in you but she already has
something fixed for that evening, she will ask
for a date another time. If she don't, just say, next!
Good luck and have fun!
just can't get at least one date a week you
certainly need a little help. Just read this
article and start using these online flirting
success tips and they will help you to get that
first date much faster.
You don't want to spend too much time online
because you really can't feel the chemistry
until the first “real world” date. However,
you can get the women you're talking
to to be interested in you and set her “
on fire” just to get to know you better.
Keep in mind that women feel attraction for a very
different set of reasons than men do. Where men
focus more on looks, women focus more on
personality, self esteem, power and confidence.
So, what are the secrets to get a date after one
hour and 15 minutes of flirting online?
1. Make your replies simple and use easy
questions. Concentrate on the conversation, not
on getting a date. Remember that flirting is a
way of connecting from the heart and
acknowledging someone. Most women want to know
what kind of person they are going out with.
2. Women always fall for men who are a little bit
unreachable. Think of yourself as special and
know what you deserve.
3. Be yourself. The underlying key to all
flirtation is confidence, the magical charm that
makes others want to get to know you.
4. Be funny but in the same time a little bit
arrogant. It creates a wonderful, entertaining
challenge that women just love to engage in...
If you make a naughty, fun comment, something she
is NOT expecting, then something magical begins
to happen: she feels a spark of attraction,
curiosity, intrigue because you're obviously
different.
5. People like people who are interested in them.
So when you engage someone in conversation make
sure you spend at least 62% of the time listening
to THEM!
6.When you are talking about you, tell enough
just to get her trust but keep a little mystery
about you.
7. Never ever make yourself to available. In one
hour of online conversation you have to make her
believe that you're confident, that you're
intelligent and funny. Don't stay any longer or
you risk to become boring.
8. Find an excuse and just go, but not before you
let her know that you're interested in her. Set
another online date but not for the next day. You
are a busy guy! Let her heat up a little bit. :)
9. At the second date (online), after 15 minutes
of talking, just say “Hey, I have some spare time
this evening, can we meet? I just want to...
convince myself that you are real.”
This way, she will be surprised and
won't have to much time to make the decision
and you will run less risk of being rejected.
If she is interested in you but she already has
something fixed for that evening, she will ask
for a date another time. If she don't, just say, next!
Good luck and have fun!
Sunday, August 2, 2009
If You’re An Actual Mommy’s Boy, Don’t Even Bother To Seduce A Woman
Men have a weakness for insatiable desire for sex. A woman will toy with this desire but once she gives in to sex, the man will get back in control. and if she witholds sex, he simply looks elsewhere. With so many articles on how to seduce women. There are that many books on how to impress a Woman.
But how, really, do you get her attention, keep her attention, and make her come back for more of the wonderful you? Do you follow the men’s versions of The Rules, that say you wait x number of times, you avoid a, b, c, and you be sure to always do d, e, and f?
Do you follow the special advice on how to seduce women who are hot or who are rich? Do you go with the psychology of genders, and follow the generalizations that all girls want Brad Pitt, all women are on diets, and all girls love to shop?
If you do try to abide by the rules of any of the above, aren’t you eliminating a number of options to meet and maybe get involved with a woman who loves cars and can drop an engine, rebuild it, and replace it in three weeks? Won’t you be leaving out the women who have no money but are potential money-makers as they are working two jobs and taking classes at night to become a veterinarian or a geologist?
You get the idea. Following some (I said “some”) advice on how to seduce women might in fact have the opposite effect: you may gross her out (if she’s not like the girls targeted in the how-to-seduce-women-manual) when you were trying to intrigue her, you may make her laugh when you intended to make her swoon, or you may make her scream when you meant to make her giggle or laugh.
So how about this? How about following a few righteous and fair methods that work almost every time because you weren’t working at them or weren’t working her?
Therefore it would be wiser to use intelligent ways to seduce a woman then just act smart. Or what do you think? There are more ways to do this, there are the good and better ways and some worse.
For example, Most men are so immoral that they use their wits to coarse women just to have sex, and manipulating them like sex objects albeit cunningly. This kind of approach will require you to have a little intelligence, you'll have to know how the woman mind work in order to outsmart them, control the game and win it using their own weapons.
But before you get to keen on the idea just remember that there are other, more honest ways of winning a woman's admiration.
But how, really, do you get her attention, keep her attention, and make her come back for more of the wonderful you? Do you follow the men’s versions of The Rules, that say you wait x number of times, you avoid a, b, c, and you be sure to always do d, e, and f?
Do you follow the special advice on how to seduce women who are hot or who are rich? Do you go with the psychology of genders, and follow the generalizations that all girls want Brad Pitt, all women are on diets, and all girls love to shop?
If you do try to abide by the rules of any of the above, aren’t you eliminating a number of options to meet and maybe get involved with a woman who loves cars and can drop an engine, rebuild it, and replace it in three weeks? Won’t you be leaving out the women who have no money but are potential money-makers as they are working two jobs and taking classes at night to become a veterinarian or a geologist?
You get the idea. Following some (I said “some”) advice on how to seduce women might in fact have the opposite effect: you may gross her out (if she’s not like the girls targeted in the how-to-seduce-women-manual) when you were trying to intrigue her, you may make her laugh when you intended to make her swoon, or you may make her scream when you meant to make her giggle or laugh.
So how about this? How about following a few righteous and fair methods that work almost every time because you weren’t working at them or weren’t working her?
Therefore it would be wiser to use intelligent ways to seduce a woman then just act smart. Or what do you think? There are more ways to do this, there are the good and better ways and some worse.
For example, Most men are so immoral that they use their wits to coarse women just to have sex, and manipulating them like sex objects albeit cunningly. This kind of approach will require you to have a little intelligence, you'll have to know how the woman mind work in order to outsmart them, control the game and win it using their own weapons.
But before you get to keen on the idea just remember that there are other, more honest ways of winning a woman's admiration.
Saturday, August 1, 2009
The Odds are in Your Favor with Online Dating
According to one recently-published survey, there are currently upwards of 40 million people in the United States that regularly visit online dating websites. Another 7 to 10 million users in Canada do the same.
While these numbers do include people that log onto sites to assuage their curiosity or to see what they’re like, they nonetheless remain impressive. Nearly 50 million people using online dating sites mean that the number of potential matches that you are likely to find is quite high.
In order to fully appreciate this statistic, think about the scene that you experienced the last time you spent a night out at a bar. Even on a busy weekend night, it is a good bet that only a handful of people there were what you might deem “worthy” to talk to. It’s not likely that this determination was based off of anything terribly deep; rather, the three or four people that caught your eye were probably physically attractive and thus drew your attention.
Moreover, it is doubtful that you were the only person in the bar or club that felt the same way. By the time you saw them from across the room, chances are that the other person or people had already been approached several times during the course of the night, and the likelihood of them being slightly irritable was good.
As this scenario demonstrates, the odds are not necessarily stacked in your favor in a bar or nightclub-type setting. The proverbial pickings are relatively slim, and what is there is fought for tirelessly by the other singles at the locale. All of this for the chance to simply talk with another person, let alone hit it off with them.
Remember, there always exists the chance that the man or woman that seems perfect from a distance will turn into a nightmare once they open their mouth.
Needless to say, the odds are slightly better when it comes to online dating. With the sheer number of people frequenting the websites, there is a strong likelihood that you will find an intriguing person near your area.
Additionally, casual correspondence via email means that you ultimately stand a better chance of being heard by the person; letters are far less obtrusive than hastily-shouted greetings at a club, and there is little direct competition with your line of communication.
And what of the possibility that the person who initially seems so attractive to you becomes exponentially less so once you learn about their personality? Happily, online dating allows you to learn a bit more about the person in question before you even begin correspondence.
No more crossing your fingers and hoping for success: with online dating, you’ll have a fairly good gauge as to the likelihood of a successful relationship before you even begin speaking with the person.
Regardless of the type of match or relationship that you’re searching for, you are far more apt to find it via an online dating website than during a random trip to the bar. Ere you dismiss it as a technological fad, you’d do well to see what online dating can do for you.
While these numbers do include people that log onto sites to assuage their curiosity or to see what they’re like, they nonetheless remain impressive. Nearly 50 million people using online dating sites mean that the number of potential matches that you are likely to find is quite high.
In order to fully appreciate this statistic, think about the scene that you experienced the last time you spent a night out at a bar. Even on a busy weekend night, it is a good bet that only a handful of people there were what you might deem “worthy” to talk to. It’s not likely that this determination was based off of anything terribly deep; rather, the three or four people that caught your eye were probably physically attractive and thus drew your attention.
Moreover, it is doubtful that you were the only person in the bar or club that felt the same way. By the time you saw them from across the room, chances are that the other person or people had already been approached several times during the course of the night, and the likelihood of them being slightly irritable was good.
As this scenario demonstrates, the odds are not necessarily stacked in your favor in a bar or nightclub-type setting. The proverbial pickings are relatively slim, and what is there is fought for tirelessly by the other singles at the locale. All of this for the chance to simply talk with another person, let alone hit it off with them.
Remember, there always exists the chance that the man or woman that seems perfect from a distance will turn into a nightmare once they open their mouth.
Needless to say, the odds are slightly better when it comes to online dating. With the sheer number of people frequenting the websites, there is a strong likelihood that you will find an intriguing person near your area.
Additionally, casual correspondence via email means that you ultimately stand a better chance of being heard by the person; letters are far less obtrusive than hastily-shouted greetings at a club, and there is little direct competition with your line of communication.
And what of the possibility that the person who initially seems so attractive to you becomes exponentially less so once you learn about their personality? Happily, online dating allows you to learn a bit more about the person in question before you even begin correspondence.
No more crossing your fingers and hoping for success: with online dating, you’ll have a fairly good gauge as to the likelihood of a successful relationship before you even begin speaking with the person.
Regardless of the type of match or relationship that you’re searching for, you are far more apt to find it via an online dating website than during a random trip to the bar. Ere you dismiss it as a technological fad, you’d do well to see what online dating can do for you.
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