Friday, July 31, 2009

Russian brides in the world

Since the power of communism has ended and "Iron Curtain" has fallen, Russian women got the opportunity they had never had before - to go abroad. In some time foreign men has appeared and have estimated them on advantage. " The Russian bride " became a beautiful dream for foreign men, an attribute of successful construction of family and the standard among brides of all over the world. What attracts the western men?

Everything is simple: the emancipation in the West has caused reassessment social and spiritual values, the woman has ceased to be simple saver a home and the housewife, today for her on the first place - career, children and the husband are on the second place.

Foreign girl will not worry concerning her appearance, convenience of clothes is now a priority for her – not beauty. They are self-assured and perceive men as equal in rights partners both in family, and in business.

In turn, Russian brides are much less exacting, and very much frequently a limit of dream for many of them is the teetotal husband and fed children. They have time to work, successfully to conduct facilities and they always look good.

And, at last, the most important and a weighty argument for the benefit of Russian brides - good formation and high intelligence facilitating adaptation in the unfamiliar country and quite often causing pride at foreign men.

Such unique combination of qualities appeared to be so appreciable, that has caused huge interest on the part of lonely men of USA and the Western Europe. Such marriages for a long time were considered to be something outstanding and finally the reasons to search the beloved ones were found for Russian women.

One of the reasons - a demographic situation in the CIS: the quatity of women is much higher than men. One more reason - Russain bride aspires to provide to herself and children comfortable conditions of life to get access to "clever" medicine, to live bright and high-grade life, freely to travel and to not reflect on household problems - and in it there is nothing immoral and unnatural. And, at last, worthy men are everywhere - and in the CIS, and abroad.

In conditions of the world integration the modern woman can and should choose not to an attribute "ours - not ours", and to much more essential attributes. Usually it is purposefulness and magnanimity, attention, fidelity and diligence, ability and desire the sense of humour and natural charm, the quivering attitude to the woman, children and the house is good to look at any age, to take care of relatives - these qualities Russian brides search for ability and find in the foreign gentlemen.

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Online Dating Software – Things You Should Know…

Speed dating or online dating is a phenomenon that is becoming one of the major revenue-generating internet businesses. The concept stems from the goal of providing stress-free and exciting way to meet potential partners with the aid of internet.

If you intend to build an online dating site, online dating software is a necessary tool to do so. This software can aid you establishing a professional online dating presence in the shortest time possible. The dating software can help create your online dating site whether it is intended for international or local niche.

Online dating software usually costs lesser compared to your in-house solution and it is quicker too. Most online dating software offers a comprehensive features and the flexibility provided by a template driven solution. Online dating software is customizable. It allows you to create your own look and feel with the flexible template system.

Some software for online dating is based on PHP4 and MySQL database, runs on UNIX based servers and supports Internet Explorer, Safari and Netscape Navigator. Most online dating software allows you to complete your site with your own graphics thereby giving the site identity and a more personalized feel. Most online dating software provides several components. Among these are: a members dating site, site administration and affiliates.

Members dating site provides the functionality to run a successful online dating service. Its features include: new style sheet control, secure internal mail, zip code search, mail blocking, chat, instant messenger, hotlist, multiple photo upload, member control panel, powerful search engine, events calendar and a host of other features.

Site administration in online dating software combines the tools require for administrating the system and communicating with members. This feature of online dating software include member accounting tools, match report, demographic report, parameter settings, profile and affiliate authorization features, comprehensive mailer and many other valuable features.

Affiliate management system of online dating software is tasked with increasing your site’s traffic and increasing membership. This system includes transaction and payment reports, affiliate management and account summary.

Fully automated online dating software allows you to accept credit card payments instantly. Payments can be accepted as one time or reoccurring monthly fees, all handled by the online dating software to minimize your workload.

Some online dating software is suited for both large and small dating sites. Some online dating software could be used by for sites with over 100,000 members. If growth and reliability are an important concern for your dating site, find online dating software that could support this number of clients.

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

10 Tips To Online Dating

Years ago, the grocery store was the best place to meet a potential new love interest. Today, online dating is quickly becoming the singles hot spot with individuals around the world looking to meet someone new.

Photo profiles that detail personal information is becoming the norm in online dating and gives individuals an opportunity to see what a potential mate looks like on paper before taking the next step.

If you are considering online dating, there are a few tips that can help make the experience a more enjoyable and successful one.

Online Dating Tip # 1
Find someone who shares your common interest, life goals and family preferences. It is important to share some of the same hopes in order for a relationship to be worthwhile.

Online Dating Tip # 2
Use caution when giving out personal information, including your full name, address or telephone number. At first, provide nothing more than an e-mail address.

Online Dating Tip # 3
During casual conversations, look for possible warning signs of control, jealousy or tempers.

Online Dating Tip # 4
If an individual seems to be extremely needy or needs to talk to you every minute, this may be a sign of possessive behavior and should be recognized early. If you notice this happening, move on and find another possible online dating match.

Online Dating Tip # 5
Don’t be afraid to ask questions. It’s perfectly normal to inquire about marital status, children, hopes, dreams, etc. If someone is uncomfortable with these questions, it’s a good indication they have something to hide.

Online Dating Tip # 6
Don’t rush. Take the time to get to know someone before you decide that you are comfortable enough to meet them. A relationship takes time to build and there is no reason to rush into anything.

Online Dating Tip # 7
If you learn that someone hasn’t been honest about his/her profile or other detail, end the dating potential immediately. Dishonesty is no way to begin a relationship and it makes you question anything else that he/she may be hiding.

Online Dating Tip # 8
With honesty in mind, it is important that you be honest in your profile and with anyone whom you are having an online dating relationship with. If and when the relationship is ready to move to the next level, it will be too late to correct anything that wasn’t truthful and the chance of a relationship will likely be lost.

Online Dating Tip # 9
If you plan to meet someone in person, do so in a public place. Preferably, the meeting time would be early in the day or the afternoon. It is never a good idea to meet a perfect stranger at dark or in a secluded area.

Online Dating Tip # 10
Be yourself. Don’t pretend to like something or be someone that you are not just to please the other person. If they are the right one for you, there will not be a reason to pretend.

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Online Dating Web Sites From The Beginning

Online dating web site has been unheard off in the past years. But as the popularity of internet use grew, online dating web sites also cropped up. Majority of people met their boyfriends and girlfriends through traditional means. The most popular ways to meet someone included blind dates, setups, meeting through friends and colleagues, and of course bar and club hopping.

By 2000, online dating entered the scene. Still, many people lacked internet access and therefore were unable to take advantage of the technology. Today, online dating web sites are worth $300 million industry in the US alone and rapidly expanding worldwide.

There are more than 700 dating services online in the United States alone and new sites are cropping up weekly. The huge array of dating services online can be overwhelming even for the most proactive dater. An average dating services online might demand $200 fee or less annually. Carefully weigh each option before committing to an online dating web site.

There are a number of online dating web sites over the net to choose from. Online dating web site is derived from traditional dating companies that have evolved into an online service of providing dating services to the public via the internet. Online dating service web site allows for a database of potential relationships to blossom. Online dating web sites offer real time chat, emailing, profiling, and telephone access dependant on the clients’ choices.

Online dating web site can be accessed through Internet service provider. Participants are required to be over the age of 18 and have registered with their chosen dating service provider. They can access the services of the site but in order to communicate further with your intended, a subscription fee often applies.

Online dating web site enables clients to actually sign-up or registers to a dating service via the Internet free of charge. This is a feature of free online dating web site which makes the system and providers very popular to the potential clients.

A number of online dating web sites allow user to use their services before they are required to pay monthly, quarterly or annual subscription fee. Online dating web site let you try the online dating site before making a financial commitment.

There are innumerable advantages in using free online dating site on the Internet. First is the convenience. Online dating web site offers information access at the end of your fingertips. The freedom of online dating web site is that you can post a profile, browse members of a website and often receive emails at absolutely no cost.

You only pay the online dating web site when you want to write back to someone or initiate first contact. This means you never have to join an online dating web site that doesn’t come up to expectations.

Monday, July 27, 2009

Flirting Tips for Guys

By and large, guys are pretty bad when it comes to flirting. It's time you learn a few of the basics, so that you can get an edge over the competition. These flirting tips will have you headed in the right direction in no time.


Physical & Verbal cues

1) Posture and Positioning
Your posture communicates everything. You need to arch your back and stick out your chest. Take up space. If you're talking to a girl, stand no more than two feet away. Don't necessarily encroach her space, but stand just a little closer than you might ordinarily.

Maintain an open body position at all times. Never cross your arms or put your hands in your pockets. If you want to test her to see if she's into you, step back a foot and see if she follows. If she does come closer, it's a good sign.

2) Eyes
The eyes can be your most effective tool for flirting. Use your eyes to give off powerful stares of desire. It's possible to make a girl's heart skip a beat by giving her a playful, lusty, or lingering stare. If you're walking by a girl you've got the hots for, give her a 2-3 second stare and then slowly glance away (slow is important). Smile just as you start to look away. She'll get the message.

3) Touch
It's OK to lightly touch her shoulder or arm when you're talking to her. But be careful. Guys have to walk a fine line when it comes to touch. Don't go overboard or you'll freak the girl out.

4) Be aggressive
Women love guys who aren't scared to go after what they want. When you show no fear in your pursuit, you come across looking like a confident man. Don't be scared to compliment a girl...tell her what you think. If she's looking extra nice, go ahead and tell her. Not only will it make her day...she'll immediately realize that you want her.

5) What you should say
To be completely honest, if you're sending out all the right body language, it doesn't matter what you say. Keep the conversation light, nothing serious or in-depth.

Bear in mind, though, that it's always best to focus on charming her and being complimentary about her looks. You can also be flattering by telling her how well she did on an oral report or test, a good game, etc. You can even tease her playfully. Just be sure to send out all the other body signals while you're talking.

Mental cues

1) Exude confidence and self-assuredness
It's crucial that you present yourself as a person who feels in control of the situation and isn't nervous. Put on a show of confidence...girls love guys who are secure.

Remember, a confident and secure person is a major turn on. This is why girls are always falling for cocky jerks. Exhibiting insecurity and fear is something you should avoid at all costs. This means no...stammering, fidgeting, wandering eyes (off into the distance), wavering voice, etc.

2) Radiate happiness, enthusiasm, & excitement
You've got to be full of energy and in a positive mind frame to be an effective flirt. If you're kicking out good vibes, your target will pick up on it and rise to your level.

Sunday, July 26, 2009

Am I Cheating? Fidelity and Online Dating

A recent study by researchers at the University of Glamorgan focuses on the issues of fidelity and jealousy. Croydon Hounslow takes a look at the results...

Online dating is one of the fastest growing industries in the UK today. Every day, hundreds of thousands of us log on to one or more of the growing number of sites available; some looking for serious relationships, others for friendship and companions, and still others for casual flings and that extra ‘bit on the side’.

Some sites claim to be purely for genuine singles seeking committed, long term relationships, others turn a blind eye to, or even actively encourage, married or cohabiting members who may or may not use the sites with the blessing of their spouse or partner.

Of course many people who use online dating sites do so purely for chatting and exchanging messages and never meet face to face; with the steady growth of the Internet as a communication tool since it’s inception, it has become increasingly possible for netizens to conduct deeply involved, real time relationships with people they have never actually met.

So what does this change with regard to the old ways of doing things? When does an online relationship become ‘intimate’? Can you fall in love with an avatar, and can you cheat on someone, or with someone, who is in a different time zone?

A recent study by Dr Martin Graff of the University of Glamorgan showed that our perceptions of what does and does not constitute ‘cheating’ online are affected by a variety of factors – most prominently, and perhaps unsurprisingly, by the level of information dating site users are prepared to disclose about themselves; Dr Graff explains

“From this study, it seems that the greater the level of typed disclosure, then the stronger the perception of infidelity.”

Seemingly, in the absence of the 'nonverbal cues' on which face to face interaction relies so strongly, how much we are prepared to give away about ourselves is the primary indicator of how intimate our online relationships are and by extension, the degree of unfaithfulness inherent in the actions of non single site users.

Perhaps more surprisingly, the study also showed that the time of day at which online encounters took place was also a key factor in establishing infidelity, concluding that

“Exchanges later in the evening were perceived to be more infidelitous, than those which might take place in the day or early evening.”

Dr Graff's study is ongoing and subsequent phases will look at the issues of jealousy and trust in the0020context of online relationships.

Ultimately the jury is still out on exactly what constitutes online infidelity and indeed relationships over the net as a whole. It is doubtful that a firm conclusion will ever be reached as the world of online dating and relationships, as in 'real life', will always be immensely subjective due to the differing moral standards and emotional responses of the individuals involved.

Studies like Dr Graff's can however provide a fascinating insight into the human causes and effects of the modern world, and how these are shaped by the direction of our rapidly developing and changing communications technology.

Saturday, July 25, 2009

Finding A Site You Like

When it comes to lounging around the Internet, you might find that your long hours could be better spent looking for a swinging good time.

No longer do you have to meet up in person to find other swingers and have that awkward conversation of do you or don’t you, but you can put in some information, sometimes for free, and find other people who are looking to swing.

It’s just so darn easy.

So Many Possibilities

The hardest thing about finding swingers online is when you type in ‘swinging online’ and find that there are hundreds of thousands of place to look at. And there are dating services designed to hook up any arrangement of swingers.

Maybe you’re a heterosexual couple looking for another couple. Maybe you’re a lesbian couple looking for a couple or a single man. Or maybe it’s the other way around.

If there’s a combination that can be dreamed of, there’s a service to get you all together.

And if you’re into any fetish in particular, then you can find that too.

How Do You Choose?

I went with the close-your-eyes-and-point approach at first, but that didn’t work out too well.

So let’s talk about the finer points of an online dating site.

This might sound a bit superficial, but listen to the reasoning first. I pick out sites based on the quality of the pictures on it. Not that I like to just look at pictures (well, I do), but I can tell how serious the site is when their members take the time to send good pics.

I’ve also found that the sites that take the time to explain how every works are great too.

If they have someone to answer your questions either via phone or email, then you know that they really want you to be successful. And a company that wants you to be successful is always a good sign.

Granted, you will be paying for such help, but it will be worth it. They know what they’re talking about.

Should You Pay To Date Online?

This really isn’t a question anymore because you don’t have the choice in most cases. If you want to talk with other couples, then you will have to pay up.

If you’re okay with just looking at pictures, then you can do that without paying each month.

When you pay, you get to e-mail, have real time chats, and even video chats (which can be super hot when you’re a long distance from each other or are just starting out).

Most of the sites have monthly fees that aren’t too terrible. And they also have a trial period in most cases, so you can get the hang of it without forking over too much money.

My advice? Take advantage of the trial period on a site, and if you like it, sign up. If you don’t, make sure to cancel your membership and move onto the next.

Even if you don’t find a great couple, you will be able to access all of the pictures and advice articles.

Friday, July 24, 2009

How to Find a Romanian Bride That Is Right for You

Dating can be fun, but if your ultimate goal is to find your life partner, there is no reason to spend time with people who aren't right for you.

Most men have a certain type of woman they are attracted to. Whether that is physical, emotional, or mental attributes, you can without a doubt find the woman you are looking for online.

Dating can be fun, but if your ultimate goal is to find your life partner, there is no reason to spend time with people who aren't right for you.

A loving Romanian bride is probably not as hard to find as you may think. There are literally thousands of Romanian women that are looking for love and romance with western men. The reason for this is that the ratio of men to women in Romania is extremely lopsided, as there are far more women than men.

So, just find the right site on the web and start browsing through the photos and personal profiles of hundreds of interesting beautiful Romanian women. Hopefully, your perfect bride is somewhere there, waiting for you.

How can you be sure you have the picked the right one?

For a compatible relationship the couple should have common interests. You have to have something in common with your partner in order to be able to be with her and do things together.

Talk online or over phone with her and try to find the answers to these questions:

Do you share common goals and priorities?
Where do you want to live?
How does each of you feel about spending and saving?

What are you building your future toward?
What kind of cars do you want to drive?
What things do you like to do together?

Are there things you love to do that you want to share with your partner?
How does your partner feel about doing those things?
Are there things your partner loves to do and wants you to love them too but you don't?

And then you must consider if there are things you love to do without your partner and if your partner is willing to understand and accept that?

Though women are supposed to stay at home and take care of kids and home but if she is an ambitious kind of a person then are you willing to let her have that career she has always wanted?

Talking about the distribution of housework is also an area to discuss ahead of time. How much time will be spent together and how much time will be spent apart?

The next thing that you have to look out for is whether your partner and your intellect match. It is very difficult to communicate with a dull or insensitive person. Ask these questions to yourself. When you talk to her, is she on the same level as you?

Another thing to consider is if you like each other's friends? How does each of you feel about your partner's family? Talk a lot about your friends and your family and make her know them.

But the most important thing, after you're getting to know each other better, is to ask yourself what qualities do you respect in her? Would you be happy if your child turns out like her? Can you accept this woman exactly as she is, for the rest of your life?

If the answers to the last 2 questions are “YES” you can start to make your luggage and come to Romania to meet her face to face. :)

Have a great flight!

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Saving Money with Online Dating

These days, it costs a great deal of money to maintain a presence on the dating scene. Bars and nightclubs routinely charge covers simply for admission, and everything inside will set you back quite a bit. You can find cheaper drinks at certain hours of the day, sure, but the odds of finding a romantic prospect between the hours of 3:00 and 6:00 PM are pretty slim, to say the least.

More accurately, establishments will actually raise the price of drinks as the crowd grows; after all, what other options do the people have? By the time you factor in the various costs associated with simply going to a bar or club and buying drinks for yourself, let alone buying drinks for other people that pique your interest, it’s not unheard of to spend well over a hundred dollars in a single evening.

All of that, and there is still no guarantee that your time, effort, or money will translate into romantic success.

One of the key advantages of online dating versus traditional dating is that you don’t have to spend any money in order to simply participate or to achieve success. Creating an online personal ad or profile requires very little time and effort, and only rarely will a company charge you for the actual hosting of your profile. If there is any fee associated with such a service, it is generally nominal.

Simply having a profile available online is the best way to increase your odds of finding a romantic partner; just as you are searching online for potential matches, so too are others looking for somebody just like you. Browsing through available online personal ads is generally free, as well.

Occasionally, websites will allow you to browse through the front pages of online personals but will require a paid membership in order to actually contact the person. Often, however, this cost is rolled into the price of personal ad hosting. Regardless of how the fee structure, if any, is structured, it still represents a significantly lower cost than a night on the town with high aspirations and uncertain results.

Not even when you find a romantic prospect and actually connect with them are you required to spend money unnecessarily. A simple exchange of emails and telephone calls costs nothing, and by the time the relationship progresses to the point where the two of you go out, it is generally assumed that there is sufficient mutual interest to warrant such a decision.

Because of this, a night out will not be a matter of throwing money around in hopes of finding romantic success; as there is already interest, any money spent will go towards fostering the development of a relationship.

Furthermore, getting to know somebody online and by telephone before actually going out with them gives you the opportunity to explore interests and discover what the two of you have in common. Because of this, there is no “testing the waters” to see what the two of you can enjoy doing together.

In all aspects, online dating is a more economically feasible option than traditional settings.


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